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workingmumnhs · 01/08/2006 11:56

Hi everyone. I had a D+C for a incomplete medical management of miscarriage in June. (Horrible time,decided to go Medical instead of surgical as I work on the ward and wanted it kept quiet. Bled like a stuffed pig. Needed a blood transfusion and then continued to bleed so needed emergency theatre) Was told it was possible to get pregnant b4 period return but didn't really think that after all that, my body would ovulate and put itself thru it again. Anyway I wanted another baby so wasn't too bothered if I did get pregnant.
Period was a week late so i took a test and it was VVV faintly postive. This line did start to get stronger but then i started to bleed. Went to work where they did a blood test which came up negative. So was it just a period or an early miscarriage. This "period" has been Very unusual. It is light and sporadic. I think it has stopped and it starts again. it has been doing this for 10 days now.
I desperately want another baby but I don't want to keep going thru this ?Miscarriage/?period
every month.
What should I Do?
Has this happened to anyone else. I need to know whether this is the first period following the D+C and my eyes were playing tricks on me with the tests or whether I was pregnant and lost it and this is a misscarriage.
DP and I have booked out wedding in 2008 so we could have another baby and get back to normal and I am getting all panicking that I won't get pregnant until 2008 and then I'll have to get married with a bump. ( I know I'm being irrational but I'm sick and fed up of not knowing whether I am coming or going)

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shhhh · 01/08/2006 15:52

tbh (I know it's hard) but I would give your body a rest until your af's return into a bit of normality iykwim.

I experienced mc's but I think my memory has blanked out alot of what happened after. It may be that you were pregnant and had mc but I'm not sure as didn't really start ttc until af returned and I was sure it had.Someone shuld be along to advise you further...

Don't panic about not getting pregnant until 2008 as tbh it's while off and you are stressing yourself unnecessarily. I to was in a similar position as you and imagined my wedding day would see me 7 months pregnant which scared me..!! As it turned out dd was a honeymoon baby and wasn't born out of wedlock ..! Little madam..!! . Good luck. xx

shhhh · 01/08/2006 15:53

btw I didn't have a d&c. I had the tablet form. I think a d&c can be more invasive and your body does need more time to repair afterwards..

workingmumnhs · 01/08/2006 16:11

I know the wedding is ages off yet. that is just by worst fear. It just seems everyone is getting pregnant around me. It has only been 6 weeks since the D+C. and 9 weeks since the tablets. I also took the tablets because it seemed the esier way around and quicker recovery time but nature gave me the op anyway (lovely woman isn't she)

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