Desperate

[Jadee190410]

Hey guys,

I just wondered if anyone could give me some advice on what to do.

Basically I've been wit my fiancé nearly 4 years and I'm desperate for a baby. I cry sometimes because I feel I'm running out of time to have one because il b to old (I'm 22) :(

Anyway i always go on about wishing we could have a baby n he does to but he tells me we cant because we cant afford one yet. When come on when can anyone really afford one? We are okayy financially so thats not really a problem.

I work in a baby shop and its gettin harder and harder to b there when i c new born babies all the time.

I really feel ready for a baby. It's like my life is incomplete.

I suffer with depression :( and wanting a baby is just making it worse :(

Does anyone have and advice or has been through this and can help me??

I'd really appriciate it :)

Jade 22yo

sorry, are you saying you are trying but haven't conceived yet or that you have started making a baby yet but really want to?

either way at 22 you are very young, you certainly haven't run out of time yet.

My advice is that you should sort your depression first before having a baby - becoming a mum will not help with that mental condition.
you might want some counselling rather than medication though.

And I would have some proper and calm discussions with your OH, if he never wants a baby don't waste your time with him

I hope this is helpful.

and BTW I didn't even meet DH until I was 23, had our first at almost 27.
I'm 39, pg with #7 - you really, really have ages!

*or that you haven't started...

sorry