Will try and keep it as brief as possible - but I tend to waffle, so sorry..
Have 3 DCs with EXH. All unplanned, all whilst on contraception. Took it for granted that I was just pretty fertile.
Fast forward and I'm now very happily remarried. We've now in our seventh month trying - which I know in reality is nothing. We were getting a bit down about it as even though it isn't long, its still depressing to keep seeing one line when it's something you both really want. No real other external stressors, life is pretty great in general otherwise. DH has 2 children from previous marriage.
We know that it's too early to start wondering about what the "problem" is. Or thought we did anyway.
Been having a lot of tests and things for various other medical symptoms - none massive in their own right. Have just been given a diagnosis, which I am fairly familiar with for various reasons already. We asked the doctor immediately if this was likely to have been influencing our chance of getting pregnant, and he said yes - that it will make it a lot harder for it to happen and that basically I am not being overly sensible even trying anyway as I'd struggle to cope. I took the last bit with a pinch of salt as whist it is fairly debilitating, I get on with it, work full time in a pretty full-on job etc and I am not concerned about coping with another LO - DH is exceptionally supportive and already takes a lot of the burden with 3 DCs.
I am not entirely sure what my question is really. I guess - does anyone have any similar experience? Whilst I am fairly familiar with the ins/outs of ME, I haven't had cause to look into this side of it before. Any tips? Successes?
Thanks!