Need cheering up

[iamapieceofcheesecake]

Hello all. Just wanted to post on here cause I need some cheering up. I have spent the past three days convincing myself that af wasn't going to rear her ugly head this month. I was sooo convinced that I was pg and when she turned up this pm, I just burst into tears.
I think i'm upset mainly because when I was ttc with ds, it happened 'first time'. Also ds loves babies and I know he would love one and I feel like i'm letting him down. OOOhhhh, this is so hard

how long have you been trying cheesecake?

It's only been about 3 months, so not long comapred to others, but I just thought I would conceive straight away after ds so that's why I had been holding off.

it's a bummer i know. but 3 months is no time at all honestly.
i was ttc ds for 2 years and i thought i was going loopy! but it happened eventually and it was so exciting!
try and forget that you are trying to concieve and just concentrate on having lots of sexy sex .
much more fun and more likely to work because you will be relaxed!

That was my original plan (huge fan of Ann Summers ), but now it's just getting tedious. I think that's why I was sooo convinced this month, because in the heat of the moment I had forgotten that we were ttc!
It also doesn't help that my cousin has just announced that she is pg and I work with pg women and newborns etc.
Thanks for the advice to.