Feeling alone!

[brazilianbird82]

Hi,
I am 31 and been trying to conceive with my husband for 5 years. I have a daughter from my previous relationship, so I know my body can get pregnant. Both myself and husband have had numerous tests and have been told by the doctors that they don't know why we have not yet conceived. I feel exhausted and so alone! I want nothing more than to have a baby with my husband, but feel it is never going to happen. I feel I have no one to talk to that understands. All my friends have either had a child/children or are pregnant since we have been trying which leaves me with no one to talk too. I cant talk to my husband about it cause I know he's in pain too and I just don't know what to do anymore. The NHS wont help as they say they cant help unless you never had a child before and although I am saving for IVF I feel I may run out of time. I know my egg reserve is at 7 which I'm told is just below average, so it would seem my body is working against me. I have finally found a man that loves me for me and I'm scared that I cant give him what he wants.

Sorry to ramble I am new to posting on here. I just wanted to talk with people who are going through the same think to see how you all cope.

Thanks for reading xx

Hi, i cant help as my situation is v different but didn't want to read and run. I hope you get the help and support you want. And that baby x

Thank you me too. x

Brazilian - I think you have found your ttc buddy!
I too have a dd5 from a previous marriage, been trying for 31 cycles with dp now 31 I am 33 , 4 mc and turning crazier my the day!!!
Have had some investigations now awaiting a gynaecologist appointment to investigate why mc! No Ivf for us either on nhs however apparently we are entitled to clomid on nhs!!! Anyway here to chat whenever x

Hey new buddy :)
I'm sorry to hear about the mc's, I have had one and that was bad enough! Even though it was almost 3 years ago I still have the days where I am so low and think what if....its natures most cruel trick, making you think you may actually get what you have dreaming about.
I was told by my consultant that they wouldn't give me clomid, as I was ovulating and it can stop ovulation she said it is made for people who don't. So basically I was told they don't know why and IVF or keep trying is my options.
I hope your investigations get you the answers you need. There is nothing worse than things happening and no one has an answer.

If you ever want to chat to I'm here.

Big hugs xx

Hi brazilianbird, hope your ok. I was wondering have you heard of agnus castus? I know alot of women take those to help them concieve. Ive read even women who have been told they could never concieve and have tryed for years then took agnus castus and concieved 9mnths later. Im taking them aswell. It might not work miracles and cant promise anything but they might help you. You cant get them from holland and barrett. Good luck :-)

Sorry I meant you CAN get them from holland and Barrett. Thays where I got mine from xx

Hey, hope you had a good Christmas ours was busy but ok.
I haven't heard of that before but thanks for the tip, I will give it a go. How long you been taking it? Are you getting any side effects?
Keep me posted, anything is worth a try. Fingers crossed for you. Xxx