Trying for 2 yrs no luck need advice plz :(

[Mrsbeii]

I don't usually join forums or ask for advice online I just read other peoples stories but I'm so stressed right now and need some advice. Me and my husband got married just over a year ago and we were in a relationship for a year n half before we wed so we've basically been trying for a baby for two and a half years now. I went to the docs and am waiting for day 21 of my cycle to get a blood test done to check if I'm ovulating. I'm absaloutley pooing myself I'm almost certain something is wrong with me, all I've wanted is a baby since I met him and now I feel as though our marriage is going to fall apart sooner or later because I know something's wrong. I made some stupid mistakes in the past which caused me to catch chlamydia twice so I'm sure that's caused me long term damage. I feel so depressed about it all I'm going through enough stress atm and now I feel as though my mistakes are going to haunt me for the rest of my life. If anyone reads this and has any advice for me I'd really appreciate it because I've got no one to turn to...thanks

Didn't want to read and run. Are you over 30? If so there is a thread here called The Elderberries which is basically entirely for women who have been trying for a while. It is v friendly and full of women who have been through testing, fertility treatment, or just endless trying! We're a very supportive bunch, come find us :)

No I'm 22 lol

And thank you il check it out now :)

I know how you feel. Me & hubby been trying for a year with no sign. Well done on plucking up the courage to see Dr. Don't feel bad about past- can't do anything about it. Live n learn! I'm 30 & thought I had ages but now realise different! Currently monitoring using ovulation kit. Good luck.