DH and I have talked and talked for a couple of years now about ttc#3 and we still haven't come to a decision.
I'm pretty much 99% sure I want to go for it, but he's more 50/50. We talked about 6 weeks ago and he said he knows how strongly I feel and in some ways he's broody too but on the other hand he's totally with our two lovely children, dd, 11 and ds, 8, so he's not totally sure he wants to start again now life is pretty easy.
He's worried about being an older dad (ge'll be 40 next year), we had ours at a young age so we could do everything they wanted to growing up without feeling too old.
When we talk, I can't help but feel his comments sound more negative than positive and I'm worried he's just afraid of upsetting me by being honest. He assures me that's not the case though.
He did say if anything happened unplanned, of course he'd be pleased, so my head all over the place at the moment.
Just don't know where we go from here really. Any advice? Just needed to write it down I guess. I just need to know where we're going really. In limbo at the moment.
Thanks x