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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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KerryJewels · 14/03/2013 15:17

I was on a thread already..with my friends RedRobin1,wee,twinkle,Alex...but now I can't find them..so hopefully they will find me!!I'm on my second round of Clomid TTC a third and final child.I have PCOS and one tube due to an eptopic so the trying part has not been so easy!!Just wanting to talk with others going through the same ordeal as me.Wanting to concieve and share the experience..it can be a long,difficult road.Hope to char with someone soon!!

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twinklestar2 · 23/03/2013 22:37

Thx everyone. I'm just so fed up.

RedRobin1 · 24/03/2013 00:46

winkle

I feel your pain. So sorry and a very big hug. Just hope we all get of this roller coaster soon. It will happen for you. I know it seems like a remote possibility on days like this but don't loose hope. It's a shit unfair process. Just think of it as life having something beautiful and special in store for us because when it does happen I know it will be the best thing in the world xxx

kittykatsforever · 24/03/2013 07:11

For winkle and someday

twinklestar2 · 24/03/2013 10:44

I dreamt about IVF again last night. I ended up with a very long baby girl.

I just feel like such a failure. And to top it off I haven't lost any of the weight I promised I would for the next appt. I keep losing and gaining. I just feel rubbish!

SomeDaySoon74 · 24/03/2013 13:44

Thank you to everyone for cheery words of support. It's very kind of you.
Aw winkle, really wish we could fast-forward to the time we all have babies! It's so difficult not knowing when, or if, it will happen, isn't it?! Sometimes it hits harder than at other times though; you mustn't beat yourself up for having rotten days when it feels all is lost and I'm sure things won't feel quite so gloomy once this shitty weather has passed. (That's what I keep telling myself anyway). You are still young enough to have options, it just may not feel like it when you're feeling blue.
I was round at my parents-in-law's house yesterday and my DH's brother and his brood came round and it was a real family day but it was so hard thinking that we may never have children for our parents /parents-in-law to dote on. We always come away with presents/toys for our cats (!!) which is very sweet but not the same as having children with doting grandparents.
Ah well, onwards and upwards. Have stocked up again on epo and opk's for next month. And the roller-coaster continues...

SomeDaySoon74 · 24/03/2013 13:47

P.S. winkle - I'm with you on the weight thing. I just can't seem to lose any. I bought lots of clothes 1-2 sizes up when I was 3 mths preggo in Jan (just before the bad news) and annoyingly they only just fit now and I might have to go up another size! And I'm not preggo. Not good

twinklestar2 · 24/03/2013 14:46

Thx someday for your lovely words. I'm mostly ok but sometimes it does hit me. Thanks for allowing me up have those moments.

Yesterday must have been hard for you. Big hugs to you. I have nieces and nephews too and it saddens me when I spend time with them.

As for the diet thing, yesterday was a good day, planning about her good day today (just making soup) and planning my meals for the week. I may as well focus on the things I can control! Why don't you join me and we can motivate each other :)

RedRobin1 · 25/03/2013 02:58

Yes someday let's fast forward to the time when we all have kids. I understand the grand parents thing. I dream of how my mum and dad will be so happy and spoil their grand children rotten. Can't wait to see that day.

winkle you are allowed to feel that way. Big hug xx

KerryJewels · 25/03/2013 21:16

My heart goes out to all you ladies that have been trying for a baby for so very long...prayers and love to you:)I sent a prayer to the Lord that you all will be blessed with joy soon..I'm sorry your hearts hurt so....:(

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twinklestar2 · 25/03/2013 22:47

Thank you Kerry, I hope it works! For all of us :)

weechops · 26/03/2013 12:31

I have lost 10lb in 5 weeks through sheer bloody willpower! winkle I know what you mean about controlling something, It makes me feel like I'm in charge over some part of my body, even if not the part I really want :) Usually I give up after a few weeks and binge on crap again, but not this time. I figure if I focus all my energy on food (or lack of) then I can't completely obsess over ttc.

Thingymajigs · 26/03/2013 13:02

Well done weechops, that's amazing. I have started back on a diet too. I've put on a bit of extra winter weight and I want to lose it early May which is definitely doable if I avoid Easter eggs.
2dpo atm, I think this will be a long wait.

twinklestar2 · 26/03/2013 22:56

FFS Where is AF? I'm on CD33 - wish she'd just come and put me out of my misery!

twinklestar2 · 26/03/2013 22:58

Well done wee on the weight loss. I keep gaining and losing the same few pounds arrrrgghh. I think going to the gym is key, will sign up to the one at the end of my road and start running again.

resipsa · 27/03/2013 16:50

How have I missed this whole thread?
Alex if you're still here, belated congrats! Wow, 1st month. Makes me reassured that the docs do know a bit about this stuff. Hope all going OK. What a present that'll be come Christmas.
Talking of which, why is it still like Christmas outside? Crazy weather.
How's everyone doing? Winkle & someday sorry to read it's been up and (more so) down for you.
Wee congrats re weight. Absolutely understand the need to focus and control something. Not eating is easy peasy compared to TTC with guaranteed results.
On CD15 here so gearing up for O. Think we're deffo on to go for IVF next month if this month is another fail. Was a bit cheered to get my AMH result of 21 which is in the satisfactory range of 15-21 and good for my age. At least the trying hasn't been in vain.
Think it's wine tonight regardless of impending O!

resipsa · 27/03/2013 16:51

Correction 15-28

resipsa · 27/03/2013 21:27

Oh God, I've killed the thread

twinklestar2 · 27/03/2013 21:32

Hi res, glad you found us :)

Pink when I wipe. She'll be here tomorrow morning. Don't know I still bother.

twinklestar2 · 27/03/2013 21:34

It's ok you haven't killed the thread. I don't post much anymore. There's only so many ways you can say 'I've dtd at the right times' and then 'AF is here' 2 weeks later. Same shit, different month.

weechops · 27/03/2013 21:54

Ah winkle :(

Res you didn't kill it :)

I'm 5dpo and had sore boobs for 2 days now but probably nothing. I keep saying I won't symptom spot but I can't help it.

Hoping I don't have to spend Easter Sunday with my toxic sil. Usually I do Easter lunch and the egg hunt, but dh is away just now and supposedly fil was away visiting his partners family, and I didn't want to host sil on my own with no one to dilute :) but I find out today fil will be here and he invited me over on Sunday after I told him I wasn't doing lunch. Selfish I know but I hope sil and bil don't go too. Dont know how I'll manage to talk about her pregnancy without dh for support. I sound pathetic don't I?

twinklestar2 · 27/03/2013 22:08

No u don't, it's understandable. X

resipsa · 28/03/2013 07:30

No, you sound normal whereas she clearly thinks of no one but herself, wee.

Talking of others' pregnancies, one more from my baby group for DD announced last week that a 2nd is on the way. And it was a "surprise", she says which I guess is the same as an accident. My guess is that my friend planned it though and the only one truly "surprised" was her DH!

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Thingymajigs · 28/03/2013 09:03

Glad to hear the results came back ok res. Hopefully you wont need that IVF appointment.
I'm 5 dpo now too wee so you are a day ahead of me. I'm trying to distract myself as much as possible.
We watched The Syndicate last night which features a fictional couple who have problems TTC and had IVF. DP mentioned that it was a good job that we have the NHS so we could have IVF but I had to say we wouldn't receive it as I had had children already, it doesn't matter that he hasn't. I said we'd just reach a stage where we stopped actively trying and just get on with our lives. He just went quiet so no idea what he thought about that eventuality. I've told him about the limited fertility options before but it never stuck obviously.

Adsum · 28/03/2013 09:17

Hi all, fatas here again! Can't get used to me new name

Hi res! Oh wee I remember you telling us about your horrid sil... to her!

Am currently cd14 and dtd yesterday but not before so am thinking prob not this cycle! Am beginning to wonder if its even a good idea to get pg again as I'm so certain ill just end up mc-ing again...

Fx for all those in the 2ww and winkle sorry to hear you're feeling she's on her way...

Adsum · 28/03/2013 09:18

And thingy don't lose hope x

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