OK so Im still not pregnant

[Southwest]

Right Im not gettng any younger and Im still not pregnant.
In fact I am the wrong side of 40, have 2 older children youngest is 3 had a miscarriage previously but then had no trouble getting pregnant am now overweight.

so what do I do?
can anyone please point me to some info and advice
AF is regular possibly a day shorter since I stopped breastfeeding, I still ovulate

I am worried it is age related or weight related

any way I can find out?

(I am dieting BTW lost 2 kg and still using myfitnesspal.....!)

thanks
very happy to have links or pointers to other sites rather than asking people to repeat loads of complicated stuff

i'd really like to say something useful but given i've been ttc for 20 months and failed miserably so far, i'm not sure i'm the best person to give advice lol, good luck xxx

thanks you too

I got pg at 41 after losing some weight but I did initially have a BMI of above 30.

thanks
I stopped BF since I had decided that was to blame now I've decided it's the weight!!
May I be so rude as to ask how much you lost? (you could PM me if you wanted)

Hi Southwest, if you're interested there's a great thread for us over 40's TTC, it is here: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/1648815-Fantastic-Forty-Plus-part-9-this-time-is-our-time-bring-on-the-bfps

I had a baby at 41+9 months. But since my fertility returned and baby was 18 months I have been ttc and have had three miscarriages (baby is now 4 and a half). For me it is definitely age related. It may just be that you have to be patient (I know how hard that is), but it wouldn't hurt to talk to your GP about some testing: FSH, progesterone and others (which I can't remember). Loads of great advice and info on the over 40's thread. Hope to see you there.

hi thanks for that
I will look into your thread.