Ttc after recent mc, for Creme egg scoffers, shared confusion and joint cursing of mother nature

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I couldn't bring myself to call her a bitch, we still need her help! Come on ladies, let's do this thing....

sorry I appear to be unable to remember what to say on just one post - Shell poas with the digital you can do it weekly (on your change over day - eg mine is a Thursday so yesterday I was 5 weeks next Thursday I'll be 6 etc) and you will see it move up or at least that has been my personal experience!

Thanks Spanish looks pleased with self

We'll need a Ex-Sept 2013 ante-natal threat before very long.

I've also realised people with BFPs now will be November babies not Christmas.

FUCK!!!!!!

Have just come back from the EPU where they scanned me since I was still getting a bfp 3 weeks after mc.

and what do they find? A great huge mass of crap in my uterus, that's what :(
So now I have to have a ERPC on monday, which will be 4 weeks post mc, which means we've just WASTED an entire fucking month :(
FUCK FUCK FUCK

They took my bloods to test HCG, and will test again on sunday just in case i got pregnant in the interim - although with all that shit in there it seems very unlikely.

The 2013 bus has just pulled away from me, tyres screeching :(

Great news on all the bfps, by the way. very exciting.
I was all prepared for poas next week too :(

Spanish- ooh no, definitely not ready to be moving over to a bus yet. I will just be hanging out here for the meantime. I was on a may bus, then a September bus. I am just going to stay here until I have seen a scan and a heartbeat.
I will also be checking with the digi. That's what gave me the warning that the second mc was happening. So am holding my breath until next week at least.

Aly- fuck. That must be so frustrating. I'm sorry. On the plus side they have found it now, so at least you know. Sorry though.

thought i'd add myself to hte stats list:

Stats list 8 March 2013

Santa 2 MCs TTC cycle 0 (i.e. before first AF after ERPC)
Shellshock7 2MCs 1 DS - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
alyant79 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 0 (next week)

Stats list 8 March 2013

Santa 2 MCs TTC cycle 0 (i.e. before first AF after ERPC)
Shellshock7 2MCs 1 DS - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
alyant79 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 0 (next week)
Camomile 0DC, 1MC, TTC cycle 0

Alyant - how fecking frustrating. Feel very cross on your behalf. I'm going to go and buy a pregnancy test now just to be sure (need to get the steak anyway!).

No time to post properly but just scanned through and had a thought- should we rename Fridays Fuckday? That's what most of the posts say today anyway....

oh Alyant :( so sorry to hear of your news. Don't jump the bus yet though.
Shell - Thanks for the comment. Silly testing so early I know

Who else is due to test early next week? I can't wait til next Friday!!!

List update:
Stats list 8 March 2013

Santa 2 MCs TTC cycle 0 (i.e. before first AF after ERPC)
Shellshock7 2MCs 1 DS - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
alyant79 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 0 (next week)
Camomile 0DC, 1MC, TTC cycle 0
Lucky13: 1DS 2MC, TTC cycle 5 post MC

HOLY FRICKEN CRAP!

I leave you alone for 5 minutes to go an earn a crust and you all go and get bloody pregnant! IBIP&SHELL&BUMP

This calls for a double thumbs up (think 'We are the Champions' if old enough!). Congratulations ladies

Janie I fully doubt intend to stick to 'Fertile Friday' to test, not massively hopefull so any witch craftery/fate/blah that can add a sprinkle of baby dust the better.

Maybe the pregnant ladies could create an interim thread like getting on a bicycle rather than a bus - i want to aspire to be on a bicycle thread soon.

alyant - what a load of poo - so sorry and can totally understand your frustration - fx for a quick recovery and thereafter a quick BFP.

general question - as I've got to 3+ weeks with the celarblue digital - is it worth continuing to use them for reassurance? eg I know it will only be able to say 3+ but that at least lets me know it isnt falling back?

or am I mental?

dont answer that

Spanish - I personally wouldn't bother. I did last time and it was still cheerfully saying 3+ after I'd mmc. Its not mental, its understandable you want some reassurance, but ime expensive false reassurance is worse.

Sorry, could you spend the money on weekly treats for yourself instead?

oh aly how bloody annoying. just when you thought you were back on track. if it's any consolation, i had an erpc and they discovered loads of watery cysts when they did the pathologists report, the doctor said it was much better that i had the erpc as then there was a nice clean uterus for a further pregnancy to snuggle into...definitely a 'better out than in' situation. i hope you're ok, such a bummer.

and ok garden i'll do my best to stick to next friday as well (unless af shows up on thursday obv). lucky are you with us? :)

stats

Santa 2 MCs TTC cycle 0 (i.e. before first AF after ERPC)
Shellshock7 2MCs 1 DS - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
alyant79 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 0 (next week)
Camomile 0DC, 1MC, TTC cycle 0
Lucky13: 1DS 2MC, TTC cycle 5 post MC
Janie: 0DC, 1MC (oct12), TTC cycle 3 - poas 15/03/12 eek

hey spanishlady I already checked my EDD and it's 10th November, I'm 5 weeks on Sunday (fx). It's a combination of late testing and 30 day cycles that meant I didn't find out till now. It's DH's 40th on 7th November so will be (all being well) a nice present :)
garden There is no way I will join a November thread, I want to be with you lot. I would join an interim bicycle but I'm not brave enough to start one...

cam good luck with the seduction
alyvant that is shit, so sorry I had a whole load of crap left too so had to have an ERPC 4 weeks after MC started, hope they can get you sorted as soon as possible xx

Santa 2 MCs TTC cycle 0 (i.e. before first AF after ERPC)
Shellshock7 2MCs 1 DS - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
alyant79 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 0 (next week)
Camomile 0DC, 1MC, TTC cycle 0
Lucky13: 1DS 2MC, TTC cycle 5 post MC
Janie: 0DC, 1MC (oct12), TTC cycle 3 - poas 15/03/12 eek
BumpKitty: 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 3 - BFP

Heartfelt congrats to all the BFP-ers!! Such fab news.

Fod, I'm so sorry to hear your news.

No TTC/BFP news here (been too sick) BUT I got a new job. The job I applied for to dig me out of mc depression (no imminent mat leave put everything in painful perspective) so I am delighted about that. And maybe like the proverbial bus stop cigarette I will now get accidentally pregnant whilst not paying attention (if only!).

Given all the good news and luck floating around I suggest we all buy a lottery ticket ;-)

oooh Bump I think Im 9th Nov so kinda EDD buddies

Cam - yep that makes sense - Im going to talk my DH into an early scan - I just want to know something concrete even with acknowledging that it doesnt guarantee anything, and cant see myself hanging on to week 12

Santa 2 MCs TTC cycle 0 (i.e. before first AF after ERPC)
Shellshock7 2MCs 1 DS - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
alyant79 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 0 (next week)
Camomile 0DC, 1MC, TTC cycle 0
Lucky13: 1DS 2MC, TTC cycle 5 post MC
Janie: 0DC, 1MC (oct12), TTC cycle 3 - poas 15/03/12 eek
BumpKitty: 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
SpanishLady: 1 DS, 1MC, TTC Cycle 0 - BFP (before first AF post MC)

My goodness you lot are chatty it's taken me all day to catch up! Yay for all the bfp's and so sorry to hear your crappy news fod,
I will join in the Friday poasing in 2 weeks I can't add myself to the stats list as I'm on my phone? Would someone be so kind as to do it for me?
MrsSpencerReid 1DS 1MC cycle 0

Also, I will start a bicycle thread if someone comes up with a witty name

I like the idea of a bicicle thread. How about we start title with
Tentative November 2013 .....

Just spoken to one of the obs docs after sheepishly telling her i am pg ( i was supposed to get another set of none pg bloods done first) and they are def putting me on clexane once I get a heartbeat. Midwife just put it on order for me and got myself a few little practice syringes and a strange little tummy cushion to practice on first! Needle bigger than I was expecting . So been booked in for scan on 19th march - eek

Would someone mind adding my to stats please. I am on phone xxx

Bodicea: 0DC, 2MC, cycle 3 post ercp - BFP

Santa 2 MCs TTC cycle 0 (i.e. before first AF after ERPC)
Shellshock7 2MCs 1 DS - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
alyant79 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 0 (next week)
Camomile 0DC, 1MC, TTC cycle 0
Lucky13: 1DS 2MC, TTC cycle 5 post MC
Janie: 0DC, 1MC (oct12), TTC cycle 3 - poas 15/03/12 eek
BumpKitty: 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
SpanishLady: 1 DS, 1MC, TTC Cycle 0 - BFP (before first AF post MC)
MrsSpencerReid 1DS 1MC cycle 0

there you go :)

how about... Laura Ashley Creme Egg graduates, join us for mutual freaking out and keep everything crossed for sticky beans,
too long? :)

Santa 2 MCs TTC cycle 0 (i.e. before first AF after ERPC)
Shellshock7 2MCs 1 DS - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
alyant79 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 0 (next week)
Camomile 0DC, 1MC, TTC cycle 0
Lucky13: 1DS 2MC, TTC cycle 5 post MC
Janie: 0DC, 1MC (oct12), TTC cycle 3 - poas 15/03/12 eek
BumpKitty: 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
SpanishLady: 1 DS, 1MC, TTC Cycle 0 - BFP (before first AF post MC)
MrsSpencerReid 1DS 1MC cycle 0
Bodicea: 0DC, 2MC, cycle 3 post ercp - BFP

What's Clexane Bodicea?

Bodicea, you'll be fine with the jabs (speaking from experience) 19th of march should have been my 12w scan so I'll look forward to some good news to cheep me up

ooh you have to have posifrickintivity in the title!!

i'm loing how many BFPs are in the stats list :)

loving*

bump it's an anticoagulant like heparin. I tested positive for antiophosolipid antibodies. After my last mc.

Sounds like a good title xxxx

So what title are we going for?!