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Ttc after recent mc, for Creme egg scoffers, shared confusion and joint cursing of mother nature

955 replies

Thundercatsarego · 06/02/2013 21:32

I couldn't bring myself to call her a bitch, we still need her help! Come on ladies, let's do this thing....

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SpanishLady · 26/02/2013 09:56

eek! if its ok I'll just stay here and try to ignore imagined symptoms - I'll post up update when I have a digital BFP or BFN.

I'll be lurking to wish everyone else testing this week best of luck....

IBelieveInPink · 26/02/2013 10:18

Spanish!!! Sounds like a BFP. And I love the fact that you were going to wait til the weekend, then blatantly didn't!!! :)
Mini congrats, until you are more confident on it! :)

SpanishLady · 26/02/2013 12:42

I am weak willed.

So weak in fact I got a clearblue digital and poas in the loo at the office....says 'Pregnant 1-2 weeks' - DH still cautions we assume the worst - but we had to agree that a clear blue digital 2 weeks ago said 'Not Pregnant' and one now says I am.

so really nothing left to do but wait to see if digitals continue to indicate pg and then see a doctor and get a definitive answer.

this is on eof the oddest things to happen to me and I know it is my own fault (and DH's!) to have this confusion but appreciate your patience and support ladies.

x

Bakingtins · 26/02/2013 12:55

Better believe it Spanish! Now we need a few more BFPs and we'll go and have a creme egg thread on the pregnancy board. I'm getting progressively more bonkers as the weeks go by, but don't want to whinge too much on here because at least I'm one hurdle further on. On a pregnancy thread I could give the madness full rein!

SpanishLady · 26/02/2013 13:01

Hi Baking - wish with all my heart we can all graduate to an ante natal thread soon - like yourself I am now superstitious about jumping too soon - if this is a new pregnancy I will be at the stage I was when I MC'd at the end of March so as soon as I believe it that is my first goal!

DIYandEatCake · 26/02/2013 13:55

Wow spanish, exciting news for you, congratulations. Hope all goes well for you in the next few weeks. I really hope we'll all be joining you soon! More than a week to wait here, am so impatient (af due next weds ish, not sure if I could hold out til next Friday... If af the bitch doesn't get me first that is!

DIYandEatCake · 26/02/2013 13:57

And thunder, hooray for mr thunder! The universe has to pay him back with a bfp...!

andadietcoke · 26/02/2013 14:28

Spanish congratulations!! I've been keeping an eye out for BFPs on my old thread! I know how you feel about milestones. Getting past 6 weeks this time was a big deal for me. I am permanently terrified, and incredibly neurotic, which is made worse now everyone knows and are excited for me, and I'm still struggling to believe everything will be okay.

tins count me in for a graduates thread. How are you doing?

SpanishLady · 26/02/2013 15:21

Hi andadietcoke - I was with you on the September thread, I am so glad to hear you are doing well. I havent been brave enough to go back to see how you guys are getting on as obviously its a bit hard for me given I had to drop off but its encouraging and I wish you and the others there all the very very best.

I have this little bit of hope and happiness I am keeping very underwraps - I feel like I am being fooled (have even considered I am causing this by the power of my addled mind!) and also aware that perhaps if I am its not really fair - I do have a perfect little boy already after all and others have had worse losses and have waited longer.

I am hoping if I am very still and small fate will forget me and let this be true and happen!

Bakingtins · 26/02/2013 15:29

Less of the "not fair" there, Spanish. Everyone who has suffered a MC knows that is not fair, and everyone deserves another shot at happiness. You getting a quick BFP doesn't actually mean anyone else has to wait any longer, they are not rationed! Hope we are due a little flurry of BFPs for the people who have been waiting a while, but that doesn't make us any less able to be pleased for you. I've always found I can be unreservedly happy for people on here who get a BFP, it's the randomers popping them out without any heartache that make me a bit Envy.

SpanishLady · 26/02/2013 15:30

thanks DIY!

GardenWorm · 26/02/2013 15:35

Hola SpanishLady - WOW! Just catching up and you appear to have a positive. Fab-u-lous! Very happy for you Smile

SaggyOldClothCatpuss · 26/02/2013 15:40

Hi to the other September Ladies. Spanish, Im so pleased for you. Yo have given me a teensy bit of hope! Smile
I STILL havent had AF yet, got to go back to EPAU on thursday, but it makes me happy to see that you have moved on matey. xx.
I WILL be with you soon!

jmf294 · 26/02/2013 16:04

Wow congratulations Spanish!!
Keeping everything crossed for you and hoping for more good news from others soon. Xx

SpanishLady · 26/02/2013 16:10

thanks everyone - you really are all very kind.

I just know there will be good news for lots more of us soon!

Mummytothearkbuilder · 26/02/2013 18:37

FANTASTIC news Spanish!! Congrats lovely!! You have given me hope!! Keep us posted Thanks xx

Bakingtins · 26/02/2013 21:43

I've started a graduates thread on the pregnancy board. Expecting lots of you to be graduating in March!

shellshock7 · 26/02/2013 21:57

spanishShock wow amazing unbelievable! Made up for you and your DH Grin

shellshock7 · 26/02/2013 22:00

baking when pg with DS, I used a post miscarriage thread and didn't move myself up to the graduates thread on the pg board until after my 20 week scan Shock If When I get pg this time I will try and be more positive and join your earlier Smile

Bakingtins · 26/02/2013 22:21

shell that's pretty much how I feel about the antenatal clubs. Laura Ashley/Creme Egg graduates all welcome to share BFP after MC irrational worries.

shellshock7 · 26/02/2013 22:40

Yeah maybe if its the same faces we can use it as a positive outlook on pg Smile

Been meaning to say for a few days now, but hope you're ok fod not heard from you for a while?

bzzbee · 27/02/2013 00:08

Had to log in to say Congrats SpanishLady, that is fabulous news indeed :)

CamomileHoneyVanilla · 27/02/2013 08:26

Congratulations Spanish. Fab news. Very very happy for you.

Lieslvontrapp · 27/02/2013 09:45

Congratulations Spanish!

Congrats to Flower on AF showing up. Still nothing for me and it will be 9 weeks on Friday since erpc! I might go to the gp next week or try and wait a bit longer! This is very annoying!

shellshock7 · 27/02/2013 13:15

Oh God, will I never learn....2DPO and already symptom spotting: my boobs defo feel pregnant Confused....altho I thought the same last month and was totally wrong Blush