Magical mystical march bus..... Let's get them bfp's

[setayharas]

So after ungracefully falling off the back of the February bus iv hijacked another decorated it with fairy lights and stocked it full of cream soda and oreo biscuits.

Here hoping march brings some much needed sunshine and all the bfps!!

Setayharas ttc1 cycle4 bfp due at some point

Happy 1st day of Spring everyone

ELA - do you have enough pregnancy tests eg can yoou afoord to 'lose' one so to speak if your period isnt due yet. I've been able to get a BFP on 12dpo but know that isnt true of everyone so a bfn might not mean you arent - sorry thats no help as I have no will power whatsoever so certainly cant blame you if you cant wait!

FX choco

for me - Im going to test again this weekend - Sunday if I can bear to wait. I have done three pregnancy tests this week alone (one on Monday and two on Tuesday - one of these being a digital test) all BFP but we want to see if I continue to get BFPs if they are moving along - the line tests were there but not dark and the digital was 1-2 weeks preg - so I am looking for a 2-3 week as per my amateur deductions I would take that to mean the HCG is building.

I would then have had a line BFN on 9th Feb, a digital BFN on 14th Feb, a line BFN on 24th Feb and then 4 BFPs (mixed type of tests) in the week of 25th Feb. If I am pregnant (for those who havent yet been bored by my tirals and tribulations - I have this paranoia that my BFPs are still to do with my MC at the start of the month rather then a new pregnancy - it is after all only 4 week today since I miscarried) then I am 4 weeks if I take the MC as a 'period' - so Im right at the start and would then have to decide what to do about getting in touch the midwife - do I wait until week 7 and call them and see if they will give me an early reassurance scan or do I wait until I have passed the stage I miscarried (8 weeks 5 days) as sadly MC has left me cautious and doubtful.

Then of course if my paranoia is well placed and it isnt a new pregnancy but something left over from my last pregnancy might I be doing damage not telling the midwife/my doctor - though I dont feel unwell but and I say this cautiously I do have morning sickness and threw up last night which does feel more like how I felt when pregnant with my son (I had no symptoms at all with the pregnancy I miscarried)

so my dears you can see how my mind is whirring and like you all just hoping at some point it will work out for me.

Spanish lady When i had my m/c about 6 weeks ago I had a blood test at the EPU a week after I'd first started bleeding and the hormones had already dropped down far enough to below level where could be considered pregnant (realise it might not be the same for everyone and I was only just 6 weeks when bleeding began)

Fx that your lines get darker!

DP is back tonight after working away, reckon I'm going to ov in 7-9 days so its all systems go!

naturally I have been sitting here (I am working from home today) thinking - lots of thinking and all my best intentions give way.

I used one of the two clear blue digitals sitting in my kitchen cabinet - has come up Pregnant 2-3 weeks

So I've got my 'proof' so to speak that my hormones think something is going on. Whats the consensus on this thread? When should I talk to the MW?

spanishlady, wow you have been through a really tough time, no wonder your mind is whirring! Personally I would call the midwife earlier rather than later and let them make the decisions for you based on their medical qualifications, you'll only be second guessing yourself other wise. And yes, do ask for an early scan.
Fx for you!
x

congrats spanish lady sounds like its getting comfy.. thats alot youve dealt with take it easy x

thanks! Have told my DH and he says that he cant believe I'd have 3 negative tests and then get positives if it wasnt a new pregnancy - so I have his permission to get a bit excited.

He says he just wants me to be happy and is only worried how it will effect me if it doesnt go well but in his mind hearing me throw up last night has given him hope so we need to stop being so scared and timid and have some confidence in the little chick.

I'll update the list and just keep my fingers crossed!

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Dreamstoreality 35, DH 29 TTC#1 cycle 1, BFP due 28th Feb/1st March
Quietninjatardis, TTC#2, cycle 9, BFP due 1st march
Chocoloulou33 TTC#2, cycle 6, BFP due 1st March
PistachioTruffle TTC#1, cycle 6, BFP due 1st March
bebebuttons2 TTC#?, cycle?, BFP due 3rd March
Tinkerbellefairy, TTC#1, cycle 1, BFP due 3rd March
Deliasmithy, 29, TTC#1, cycle 5, BFP due 4th March
Pixie001 TTC#?, cycle 6, BFP due 4th March
Ela88 TTC #1, cycle 2, BFP due 4th March
lovesthechaos3 TTC#4, cycle 2, BFP due 5th March
Pops78 TTC#2, cycle ?, BFP due 5th March
DogandBeth, ttc#3, cycle 1 BFP due 6th March
Marie456 TTC #1 Cycle 4. BFP due 7th March
Padster75 TTC#2, cycle 5, BFP due 7th March
barebranches TTC#1, cycle 2, BFP due 8th March
Sorelip, TTC#2, cycle ?, BFP due 13th March
navis176, TTC #1 cycle 5 post mmc, BFP due 14 March
Malteaser1982, 30, TTC#2, cycle 1, BFP due 15 March
QueenofClean TTC#3 Cycle 2 BFP due 15th March
YorkshireTeaDrinker TTC#2 cycle 17 BFP due 21 March
Clare8allthepies, ttc#2 cycle 1, BFP due 23rd March
lisbapalea, TTC#2, cycle 2, BFP due 23/24 March
BeQuicksieorBeDead, 35, TTC 1, cycle 6 ish, BFP due 24th March
TakingTheStairs, TTC #1, cycle 7, BFP due 26th March
dondon33, 34, TTC#4, cycle 2, BFP due 25-27 March
Thatssofunny, ttc#1, cycle 15, BFP due 28th March
Gillian1986 26, TTC#1, cycle 2, BFP due end of march
ScienceGeekGirl, 28, TTC#1, cycle 1, BFP due ?
theboob TTC#5, cycle 1, BFP/AF due ?
katerinaemalina TTC#?, cycle 4, BFP due?
Springbells, TTC#?, cycle #, BFP due ?
Lyndsey90, BFP due?

congrats spanish

oh god little worried starting to really cramp i hope im not about to mc again x

ahhh honey everything crossed for you hun, isnt some cramping normal? Hope all is ok. Thinking of you.

yeah but this feels like im about to come on full force... mild but worse than before.. x

Sheesh today at work was a struggle!
Don't know if it's anxiety symptoms or what?!
Been so light headed, dizzy, slightly nauseous, breasts ache and slight stomach ache. And no it's not symptom spotting!! Had to eat 2 bars of chocolate to even feel remotely normal. I've bought some hpt's but don't know whether to test or not. Gah!!!

Spanish
I'm in your boat, had m/c start of month too. No idea when to expect af! It's so confusing!!! Xx

lyndsey and spanish adding me three. I had a mc at end of Jan. Day 40 now but clueless when my AF is supposed to due.

Aww bless us! one was yours early?? My af was late, got her 4/5 days late. Period was extra long. Few days later started to bleed again so took test and was bfp. Started having heavy pains and lots of bleeding over the few days after than and it stopped a week into Feb.

No idea if it's possible to be pregnant again this soon though. I've got the same signs as last time though x

I was at the end of 6 weeks, starting week 7. I've got positive bfp about 4 days after missing my periods. I had booked for my booking in appointment, so had a midwife assigned. The midwife told me there is no reason why I can't try immediately again. So the good news is we could all potentially get a bfp again this cycle!

Also I have got myself a CBFM. It says on the leaflet that I can't start using it until about 2-3 cycles after the mc. (I can't remember if it's 2 or 3). Basically we can still have hcg in our blood stream, and that the cycles won't be stable for a bit.

I did get a negative on the test I did at the end of m/c. Did one Wednesday too and that was negative so hopefully I'm back to normal. Well, as normal as I can get?! X

Uh oh, cramps are here...
I don't think I ov'd this month but even so,i had been hoping.

Oh no delia damn af! X

honey - i hope it is just the usual cramping you can get in pregnancy - everything stretching etc. FX

one and lyndsey FX for you this month - I believe the general rule of thumb seems to be that you can ttc again if you feel emotionally and physically up to it - we had intended to wait for AFP and only dtd as I thought I'd already ov (if at all) so there wouldnt be any harm - it was lovely to be intimate again for no other reason then because we felt like it. It is quite lovely to have fallen preg then as it felt very special.

Yeah I know what you mean one
It's been my birthday week and we've been shagging all month more than normal lol. Think it might be because I was bleeding and out of action for so long!!! X

I'm on CD36 BTW lol

Congrats spanish and fx it's a sticky one for you!
delia and choc cramps for me too..was convinced I was gonna be greeted by af when I went to loo but it does this to me for a few days so expect she'll arrive as scheduled mon.
honey really do hope these are natural cramps, keep relaxed and try not to worry
ela I'd say only poas if you have ICs, are ok if u get bfn due to testing early and like most of us have no patience! ...otherwise you might want to hang on couple more days
Yiiiippppeee it's the wknd!! Diy for me how bout everyone else?

Work work work all weekend for me!! No play time for lyndsey!!