So I have two adorable children (boy aged 8 and a girl aged 5). I got married v. Young - only 18 and had my son when I was 19. My husband and I are now at a place in our lives where we're thinking about maybe having another baby.. I know it's selfish but I can't help thinking that as the kids are getting more and more independent each day this would bring me right back to start and I don't know if I could handle it! On the other hand I think we were so young when we had the kids if we did have another one we would be much better prepared... argh! Just don't know. Any help/advice would be greatly appreciated!