is it worth it if......

[acsr1987]

i go see the doctor about getting some progesterone to kick start my period? i had a eprc on the 31st of october after medical management of mmc went dreadfully wrong and had a horrific bleed. i sort of spotted for about 3 and a half weeks after but still no actual period. im annoyed as im not pregnant but no period yet, i dont want a period obviously but i want to know where i am instead of shaggin pretty much every day and hoping for the best when i might not ovulate for ages? has anyone else been through the same with any advice?
im bloody sick and mega low, the mc has been the hardest thing ive ever have to deal with and im feeling pretty short changed that i have to to the whole TTC bit all over again grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
just wanna curl up in a ball and die to be honest

I'm sorry to hear that you have had a tough time.

Your body has been through an awful lot. I understand your impatience but I think the best thing would be for your body to take the time it needs to get back to normal.

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i know that that would probably be for the best but i cant do it im literally a sobbing mess i just dont know what to do, i need to get pregnant
i just dont know what to do, the only way i can think that can make me feel better is just to hav another baby but nothing is happening im so frustrated and just so upset and i am crying pretty much all the time
aaaaagh

Handhold. But I second euro your body has been through a massive ordeal, both physically and mentally and just a very short time ago. I can only imagine how low you feel a and that urge to be pregnant right now is very very powerful. Let yourself grieve for what has happened and look after yourself. It is likely your hormones are trying to sort themselves out and are also contributing to you feeling very emotional. Take care, I'm sure it will happen again very soon.

i feel like ive been numb the past few weeks, like im quite an emotional person anyway but ive just been completely devoid of all emotion until the past few days, i think its mostly frustration because im pissed off that it would of been coming up to my 20 week scan and i keep think i should be feeling kicks and all that shit
grrrrrrrr i just need to get pregnant and i know i should wait but that to me is not an option, i need to focus on this and i need to get it over, i havnt had a period since august and i still feel like im living in my last pregnancy which is compltely gone
ive been trying for a baby since 2 days after i got out of hospital and still nothing grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

I'm sorry, it must be so tough. But it really is very early days. Whilst I haven't had a mc, I do understand the want to be pregnant (2 years and still trying). It's horrendous. Could you go to your GP just for a chat and some advice?

I felt so empty after my ectopic - I remember that urge to be pg again. It took us a good while, and in the end I can see it was good it did. If you can focus on being in good shape for pg instead of getting pgs that may help? You may well be anaemic and a course of multivits and iron may be a good idea-ask the GP.

Sorry you're having such a hard time.

skiffen im really badly anaemic due to blood loss but does that effect your fertility? im takinf quite strong iron pills now and folic acid
my gp is so nice and she has already suggested the progestorone but i wanted to wait but now im just so frustrated
this is putting a big strain on my relationship, we wud never split up we are very much a team but its so hard, i felt like id been given a check for amillion pounds then told i couldnt cash it, i just need to get pg again and every day that goes by i feel worse and worse im trying everything, i literally stand on my head after sex, use a mooncup to avoid spiliages using conceve plus. i dont smoke i dont drink im abit of a chubster but thats about it
i feel like a complete fucking failure