What a roller-coaster this is! It should be the most natural thing that happens. Millions of women go through this every month for centuries. For me, though, this is not happening easily. I just want to become pregnant and have a healthy happy baby with the man I love. Why, why should this be so hard? Have I waited too long? Is it a result of some silliness I?ve done when I was young, like not going to see a gynaecologist until I was in mid 20s? Is it something I am not doing correctly now ? not measuring my BBT, don?t have ovulation prediction packs? Perhaps I am not having enough sex and not on the right days? Or not in the right positions? How can I stop obsessing about it, stop wishing for a pregnancy tester you can take straight after sex, stop looking for signs of a new pregnancy all the time?
This has been two very long years? I think I am at the point where I want to take a very careful, calculated approach to conception now. Where do you, ladies, recommend I start? (There is so much jargon/abbvs on these forums, I have a page with jargon buster open as I am tying this! :-)) Some of you seem to be TTC in such a well-organised, strategic manner ? I hope you?ll share some advice with a hopeful newbie.
Thank you.