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tothemoon · 18/10/2012 02:18

My husband and I are thinking of starting a family, but there are a few issues I have and I would like to see if any one else out there has had a similar experience.
I am 25, when I was 18 I was admitted to hospital with suspected appendicitis, despite my protests that my impossibly painful periods were to blame. I couldn't walk when I was on, I'd just sleep. My longest period was 6 weeks at age 17. I was misdiagnosed as having STI's, given 3 diff anti b's and discharged. ALL the test results came back as clear - so they had to find out what was going on. Those 3 days in hospital were the most degrading of my life.

I had an ultrasound scan which showed up a bicornuate uterus, the severity of which I don't know. I was told to look it up online. I also had a laproscopy, when I came around from the anesthetic I was told I had adenomyosis. My gynae gave me two options, to stay on Yasmin for the rest of my days or have a hysterectomy. He also told me to look up adenomyosis online. He then told me that if I wanted kids I should cross that bridge when I get to it.

So, here I am, 8 years later and ready to cross that bridge. As you can imagine I have very little faith in doctors and to be honest I am confused as to what to think about my situation. I have taken Yasmin religiously for the last 8 years so as not to endure the pure hell that was my monthly cycle.

I took my last pill last week, I came on yesterday and there's no turning back to the comfort blanket of Yas. Now there's one other problem, my husband works in the Middle East and we only have so many windows of opportunity. So I want to be as prepared and informed as possible. I am going to visit my GP next week to see what they think and have a check up.

I would love to hear from other women that have conceived with adenomyosis and a bicorn :)
x

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tothemoon · 21/10/2012 20:49

bump. anyone?

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akuabadoll · 22/10/2012 07:45

Just a small suggestion: perhaps you could think about re-posting with your specific medical issues in the title? There tend to be a lot of threads with titles like yours, rather general, and I thought perhaps you would be more likely to catch someone's eye. Good luck.

moggle · 22/10/2012 10:42

Gosh that all sounds like a total nightmare!
Are you taking the advice of your doctor in coming off the pill? I just wonder if it would be better to stay on it until you've at least had an initial discussion with the GP, considering how severe your pains were.
Surely they could at least scan again to find the extent of your uterine issues while you're still on it?
I really hope your current GP is a lot better than the shower you had to deal with before. And don't forget, if they're not, you can change. Good luck!!

tothemoon · 23/10/2012 00:24

Thanks Akuadoll, you're right! New to mumsnet and didn't think.

Moggle- I visited my new GP today. She was lovely and had a huge grin on her face when I told her we wanted to try. They aren't sending me for a scan until I get pregnant. She gave me a quick mot and all seems well for now. Just had my last dummy period. She pulled out my records and according to the scan I had at 17, I have a symetrical heart shaped uterus with a slight septum in the centre. So it could be a LOT worse.

She said I can't stay on the pill forever anyway and she ran through a few of my concerns. She has put me on folic acid and wished me the best of luck. It's a waiting game now. My GP also told me I would be classed as a priority for scans and would be closely monitored. I have to say I feel a lot more clear on things now and I was so excited picking up my folic acid prescription - how sad?!

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frogchops · 23/10/2012 19:47

That's not sad at all moon, It's my first month of trying, as I only came off the pill last week too, am just about to finish this ' period' and I'm gonna investigate good days to get it on, lol. I was excited looking at the whole shelf of stuff to take, so I'm with you on that one! Good luck!

tothemoon · 24/10/2012 00:07

Thanks frog, You will have to keep me posted on any good news! It's really surprised me how all of a sudden I just feel completely ready to do this! Best of luck!!

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Rania100 · 10/11/2012 14:40

Hi moon, I have adenomyosis too but had endo as well which was removed via excision surgery. Going to start trying again in a few weeks. How are you getting on?

tothemoon · 25/11/2012 03:56

Hi Rania! Sorry just seen this now. Just had my first proper AF in 8 years, hardly any pain at all and only on for 4 days. GP said been on the pill for so long could have helped scale back the Adenomyosis, who knows. Going to start ttc in Dec when DH is back from working abroad. You will have to keep me updated on your progress! Has your GP suggested anything with regard to the Aden causing probs conceiving?

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