I am feeling very pressured into stopping ttc.
This is massive to me and i am awaiting for a date to start councelling to get this into my head. To accept it.
Thing is so far we have not been using any contraception so despite me telling every one we have stopped, secretly, wehavent have we. Subconciously i havent given up all hope yet.
(ive just had mc number 7, im 41 and am told by reoccurring mc clinic that i will continue to mc, even though they dont know why i mc)
Family and friends have told me "enough now", so i feel pressured.
Councelling will help i think, but its my choice, im a grown woman...at the same time im planning what i will do when i next mc (which i will) so that no one will have to know anything about it 
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After 12 years im struggling to get this "maybe next time" mantra out of my skull.