Got my BFP but after 2 m/c am scared witless!

[foxyladee]

I've had 2 m/c's this yr so far. We already have 1 DD who's 4.
Dr did bloods which all came bk fine and the midwives who did internal scans at the tie of m/c said everything looked fine it must of been bad luck.

I take folic acid and 75mg asparin as advised by gp daily.

On Monday i found out i'm pg so today i'm 5 wks 6 days. The gp is putting me straight in with a midwife asap. I seemed to m/c at 6 weeks both times.

I an absolutely terrified it's going to happen again. I know i can't stop it and on the exterior i'm quite calm but i think of nothing elese. Every twinge i think thats it, i'm always checking for blood and i'm even dreaming i'm bleeding!!!

Please has anyone been through this who can help? I know getting stressed is no good but how can you not?

Just re-read my post and i meant 2 mc in a year not 2 in 2012.

Any advice greatly apprciated.

No expereince I'm afraid but wishing you lot's of luck that it all goes well this time. Sorry about your m/c's, I had one in November at 5 weeks after two successful pregnancies. Easier said than done but try not to get too stressed and take one day at a time .

Just wanted to wish you luck. I m/c twice at around 6 weeks at the end of last year and am TTC again, so know what you're feeling. I'm alternatively desperately hoping for a BFP and scared of what will happen when (trying positive thinking:-) I do.

Fingers crossed and positive thoughts heading your way.

Congratulations on your BFP! I have 2DD and since hogmanay have had two mc's. mc1 at 7 weeks and mc2 at 5ish weeks. Have started ttc again and am waiting the arrival (or not hopefully) of 1st AF. I have no advice to offer but just wanted to wish you loads of goodluck!!

Congratulations! DD was my third time lucky after two miscarriages. I was exactly the same, even down to waking up from dreams feeling like I was covered in blood. The scans helped a bit and feeling her move helped again, but it was completely nerve wracking. Sorry not to be more helpful, but I think it's a case of taking it all a day at a time. Good luck!

I ended up flicking through this topic by mistake (clicked wrong thing, trying to find right one) but this caught my eye.

My mum had two m/c and then me, happy healthy and two weeks late. Fingers crossed for you you have the same outcome.

Best wishes xx

I know how you feel. I have 2 dc, then started trying for a much wanted third. Had 2 consecutive mc around 6 weeks about 4 months apart. Fell pregnant again next cycle. I am now 18 weeks and still not completely relaxed and probably won't till he/she is born! In fact do you ever relax??
Good luck x