I have 1 dd who is 9 yo and have secondary impaired infertility (I think I'm describing that correctly - I became infertile after she was born, I shan't go into how).
I love my dd and it isn't that she isn't enough for me and new dh (who isn't her father), we want another dc for her aswell as for us.
We are trying to adopt and after we have adopted a little one, we may seek out fertility treatment, until then its just good old practising while the adoption process goes on.
I can't wait for our new son or daughter to come home to us and I afterwards I really hope to be pregnant again. It devastates me to think that there could be a chance that neither happen.
AIBU to get pissed off when people moan about their children or neglect them?? It drives me mad!! I know that I can't pass judgement on their challenges as I only have one dd and not 2, 3 or 4 or more children.....but when I see, hear or read these comments....I just want to scream, give them to us then!! Why did you have them??? Look at how lucky you are!!
It's just so frustrating to see and hear people making babies all around me when they don't even act like they want the children they have. it's just not fair at ll.