DP and I are due to get married in August 2013. Originally we were going to wait to TTC until then. However, in December, eagerness to have a DC got the better of us and we have now been TTC for 3 months, but with no success.
However, DP has now decided that we should stop TTC and go back to the original plan of waiting until after our wedding. He says this will give us more time to save up money and allow us to focus on the wedding for now. Part of me thinks he is right but I just can't imagine stopping trying now that we have started. Also, when we first got engaged I was excited about the idea of a big wedding, but now I think I'd rather focus on having a child and just have a small wedding.
I don't know what to do now. I don't want to keep TTC if DP really doesn't want to, but I was so excited about it all and now I'm feeling deflated. I don't know what advice I want really, but has anyone else been in a similar situation?