Feel so bad but couldnt help it how do you react....

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I feel really bad I just wanted to tell people who understand...I just went to meet my 3 old mates from work for lunch (as moved companies) and as I sat down friend 1 informed me she was pregnant again for the 2nd time which was great I was very chirpy and didnt let my jealousy show and then my 2nd friend who has just been trying to 2 months with her first said and i'm pregnant too - blimey double whammy, I completely held it together asking them questions etc and being all excited for them and then they asked about me and what was happening and I burst into tears - felt so awul as its their new to tell and was so excited I just couldnt keep it in i really wish they had told me by email as they know what we've been though for the last 2 .5 years of trying and at least I would of been prepared I am always happy for people but I couldnt hold it in and now feel so horrible getting upset in front of them with their exciting new ....tell me Im not a horrible person x

I dont think AF arriving yesterday helped matters

You are not a horrible person. They will understand don't worry, don't let it stress you out. What did they say? I think they were a little insensitive to be honest if they both told you double whammy if they know what you are going through. x

Ah thanks they both felt really bad and sent me messages after and its fine its was just a bit overwhelming and an emtional day - thanks for answering my mess x

I would have burst into tears too. Big hug. You are not on your own! It will happen

Your not horrid, just human. Hope you ok

I think your af probably made you more hormonal and your reaction was totally understandable. They should have thought it through a bit more and given you the news in an email like you said.

xxxx I Dont think you are horrible at all, hormones can be a right pain in the bum! hope things look up for yu, take care xxxx

You're not horrible. If your friends know what you've been going through it was very thoughtless of them to tell you like that. I would have burst into tears as well. It was bad enough when my cousin emailed me with her happy news the other day - I could hardly bring myself to reply.