Little background, i have been on here for a while,
I have a DS age 2, after i had him i started having various problems, and symptoms, after visiting my GP i was asked to stop the pill in April this year to have blood tests done, as the pill takes at least 6 weeks to fully come out of your system. During past months since then i had abnormal LH FSH levels from bloods taken at GP, and along with the results i was having very irregular periods, ranging from 43 days to 66 days!! Hair growth on my face tummy and toes, and bad skin.
Got referred to endocrinologist end of sept. More bloods done and examined-she told me she was suspecting PCOS, well the results came back confirming it. High LH FSH levels High Androstendione levels and borderline Testosterone.
Been started on Metformin just last week, and also had to increase my Thyroxine as i have underactive thyroid.
While at doctors she mentioned contraception to me as metformin will regulate my perioods and high chance of pregnancy, but untill i get my levels right she advises me to wait before ttc again.
Altho i dont want to ttc just yet i would like to have another DC in the future, but was a bit worried than by taking cerazette again with metformin will cause more trouble as met will regulate me but cerazette will prob stop my periods.
Anyhow to cut a long story short, was at Gp again on friday with throat infection and got more tablets, he mentioned maybe trying another form of contraception for now, but i cant take certain ones because of migraines so hes gonna ring me back next week.............when i got home and was discussing it with DH, i was shocked that he turned to me and said 'well il just go for the snip'
i was like 'erm why though, i can get sorted with a diferrent type of contracpetion im sure'.......but the conversation went on and on then he told me he doesnt want any more kids. We havent really talked about having anymore, but it seems like my chance of having anymore has gone.
He did explain to me that he was wanting to make it easier on me having to take so much tablets, and would rather i got sorted and felt better which i appriciate but im hurt also that he dont want anymore kids. He has a DS my stepson to a prev relationship he is 10. He often says we have 2 thats enough and that we couldnt afford another which we couldnt really, but everyone else seems to manage. Dont get me wrong im not desperate to have another, but the chance in the future would be nice im only 26, DH is 35.
I dont know whether to agree to this or not ??? It seems so final to me, although when i said that to DH he said no it can be reversed, and that hes thinking of my health which like i say i appriciate he is worried, but if hes told me he dont want anymore kids then theres no chance of him ever getting it reversed.
Please help :(