Had a mc beginning of Oct, now TTc but obsessing, worrying, overthinking things, help!

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I have 4 dc. All concieved within a month or two of trying and all pg's have been fine. I had a mc at the beginning of Oct at 9 weeks pg, this pg also happened on our first month of ttc. We were devastated but have now decided to try again. I have just had my first AF since my mc so now I can get back into knwing when ovulation will be etc...

However, I am becoming obsessed already, I so want to be pg again and because all other pregnancies have happened really quickly I am hoping this one will too, its all I think about every day and I know I need to step back and calm down but I can't.

I just needed to get this off my chest and am hoping there may be some hand holders out there for me as we go through ttc again. :)

Can sympathise with you there hun, I had mc 3 weeks ago and have been through same feelings apart from it was my first pregnancy.
I have to admit I'm terrified it'll take us months and months to get pregnant again or that it won't happen at all but I think feeling like that is only natural.
There are some fantastic ladies on here who will be there for you and always ready to offer advice or just somewhere to vent. Come and join us on 'TTC a 2012 baby,this is our year' bus, I was on there before I fell pregnant and now after mc and they are a brilliant bunch, they always manage to cheer me up and it is very comforting to know others are going through the same thing.
I wish you lots of luck & hope your ttc journey is a short one

Hi, I lost my baby on the 1st of October last year. A year on I am pregnant again, 22 weeks now, with a baby boy we discovered yesterday. Perfectly healthy. My aim in saying this is to give you hope, not rub it in when you must be feeling so raw :(
It did take awhile to conceive again, but I didn't chart and my cycles were really irregular. I tried tracking at a later date and did conceive quickly, even though I didn't know what I was doing at that point!
Be kind to yourself and give yourself time to grieve for the baby you lost, mine was at just 10 weeks and it took a long time to feel better.
So many of us have been where you are now and having 4 Dcs already you know that you can do it and Peapop you managed to conceive so should be able to do it again. Best of luck for the future and TTC :)

Thank you for your kind words ladies. I know we have done it 4 times already but after the mc I keep getting this nagging feeling that it won't happen now, I know I am sure all will be ok when the time comes. Am now onto my first proper monthly cycle and all are regular and like clockwork so now its just a case of making it happen!

Will hop aboard the making a 2012 baby bus! :)