Thank you so much for taking time to answer 
Thank you for remembering me show. I 'live' on the results/choices thread, and gain and (hopefully) give alot of support there following my loss in April.
I will read the thread, joycep, thank you, didnt spot that one!
My story (as brief as i can) is that i am 43 and have three daughters concieved easily in my 20's with my ex with no probs. Just happened like clockwork.
Then, 16 months, ago my partner and i decided to ttc. (he has no children of his own) My cycles were regular, but i had no idea if i was still ov'ing. So i spent 4/5 months doing one or two OPK's mid cycle and found a surge each month so was just happy to be ov'ing. Didnt time BDing or carry on with OPK's or temp. Didnt know anything about length of luteal phase, or what it means for fertility.
13 months later (!) i had all but given up and was well on the way to being quite happy if it didnt happen at all ever. (OH was still keen as mustard)
Then suddenly - bang - pregnant in Jan this year.
I was shocked but over the moon. OH was ...... just on cloud nine. Extatic! We were so happy. But sadly my 13 week scan showed awful problems and we terminated 2 weeks later. 

We've been told we were just unlucky and to try again as soon as we liked. So we gave it a week
and started ttc again.
Well - no more relaxed approach for me!! Although still grieving - I'm DESPERATE to be pg again. I've spent 2 months on FF temping, OPKing, CM checking, cups, cough mixture, preseed - you name it. I've looked at my notes i kept those first months we were trying and with the info i have now i recon i mostly have a 9/10 day LP. Thinking this is why it took 13 months...
I've googled till i'm blue in the face and frankly got rather confused about the treatments for SLP, hense my post. So thats me! Thanx for reading all this xxxx