Why doesn't it happen for me...

[twizzlestix]

Just received a phone call telling me my 20yr old relative is updiffed BY ACCIDENT and have been sobbing ever since whilst trying to hide my insanity from DH.

Life just feels so unfair. I've been TTC for ages and never 'won' a baby and yet wham bam others manage it without cutting out caffeine, drinking grapefruit juice, charting etc

Now she's thinking over her options... which is important for her to do but I have to bite my tongue to stop myself screaming I'LL HAVE IT

Rant over. Sorry if typos am still crying

Oh twizzle I know exactly how you feel

How long have you been trying for?

(((hugs)))

You are not alone Twizzlestix. Have you been to see your GP? xxxx

How you feel is not insane, your DH will understand. Don't deny yourself comfort from someone who loves you :(

Twizzle - I have been there!

Got to the point where I used to sob insanely at every pregnancy announcement, not just the accidental ones.

Poor DH thought I was completely losing the plot at times, so well done for still keeping some grip on things.

I don't know what else to say, apart from that what you are feeling is very normal for someone TTC for a while and you shouldn't feel ashamed of having a good rant! :(

Thank you for responding to my whinge ladies. Am feeling better today but hid from DH until had got contol of myself. I know he wouldn't be very sympathetic and would just think I'm bonkers.