Ever feel like your being teased!!

[kay157]

I've been ttc for nearly 3 years and for a few weeks i'd been feeling very tired and completely out of sort!!! I did a preg tset a week ago and a very faint almost white line appeared. As you can imagine i had got my hopes up that just maybe i was and had tested too early so decided to wait and see if i was late. however yesterday the dreaded 'thing' arrived and i was sooo upset. Month after month i just feel like i'm being teased just that little bit more and month after month feeling more and more disappointed!! i was so upset yesterday that i really cried and i feel like i'm failing as a women!!!

does anyone else feel like this every month..think i just want to give up on the idea now!!

Hi Kay

I want so much to be able to offer support advice etc but I am only just finished my first cycle of TTC and so it prob wont be much comfort. I did cry when mine came so I can only imagine what every month for a long time must feel like.

Reading this made me feel so sad for you. Please don't give up though. Relax and keep strong and know that none of this is failure

xxx

Hi Kay

So sorry that your period arrived, it is possible you were pregnant, but you had whats called a chemical pregnancy. Have you had any tests done yet to find out why you haven't managed to conceive?

I really feel for you and know exactly what you're going through, and it is Sokol hard :( it took us over a year to conceive our son and it's nearly a year we've been trying for number two.

Thankyou Helen and Excited. I'm ok feeling much better today so sorry for my little rant!!! yes we have had some tests ,i've had blood tests and a scan and fiance has had a test too and all ok so far. We have got an appointment at hospital nxt week so fingers crossed all ok. It took us a while to go through fear really but i'm trying to think of the positives...we're out with friends this weekend so i can still drink wine lol and not worry and other half really wants to go to V festival in august (never been) so if i haven't c by then we can do that too

wish you both luck with ttc...i'm sure it will happen for you both xxxx

Kay, I know how you feel. I've been ttc for 2 or so years. One miscarriage last year otherwise no bfps. Took a test today and no joy although the symptoms of being pg are the same as a period coming for me so I always get hopeful and then get my hopes dashed. I know what it feels like to need to vent.

I do have DS though, so I'm very grateful of that. I just so want him to have sibling.

You are right to start thinking of what you can do if you're not pregnant. It helps.

Hi Kay sounds like you've had a shitty week, sometimes it does feel like your body is playing nasty tricks on you.

Good that you are exploring this further - ask the hospital if they can diagnose what's going on - at least "unexplained" might give you chance to move on. A friend of mine was diagnosed with this and now has a DD through IVF. Ask them as many questions as you want and make sure they give you time to think about the next step.

We've been TTC for 3 1/2 years, finally got some tests a year ago, DH fine - I was diagnosed with PCOS after lap&dye and HSG test. 6 months of clomid, and finally a BFP. Sadly I had a MMC in January - so back onto the sodding bus. [frustrated emoticon]

What I've learnt is that you can't put life on hold, so book the V Festival, and if you are pregnant in the summer, brilliant news, you could always sell the tickets?

Thinking of you and FX for a good trip next week.

x

Blackkat for you too. I'm off for tests if I get my period again this month. I had a scan which showed up nothing wrong and an inconclusive blood test last year. I moved house so never got round to getting another blood test.

Chins up everyone.

Aww Blackkat so sorry to hear that better luck nxt time. Irene you should go for another test i put some many tests on hold for a while and then you end up not going!! Thankyou all i'll let you know how the test goes nxt week...good luck to you all too and keep smiling :)