This is my first post on mumsnet and I'm not even sure I'm in the right place. Ive been reading through the forums for days now though, and I think I might as well see if someone on here can help me.
I'm 23 years old and in my last year of teacher training. I've lived with my 25 year old boyfriend for the last four years and he has a steady, secure, full time job. I'm desperate to start a family and have been since probably my mid teens in one way or another, for whatever reason. Obviously, though, we haven't done it yet and I know that I need to give it two/three years so I've qualified and got a job, but I'm scared that when the time comes I won't be able to conceive.
My periods have always been irregular, but I didn't realise the extent of it until I started tracking them on my phone. It's currently telling me the I have 40 days in between cycles - that cant be normal an it? I did go to my doctor, but she told me there was nothing sh could do and I found. Her really dismissive.
Adding tj that, we haven't used a cindom for about three years, although he doesn't come inside me. Are there at words of wisdom for me, or am I being paranoid?