Yep, all my friends have more than 2, and theres doesnt seem to be any of this agonising either. I think Ill still be umming and ahhing when pregnant!
If I could just have another born at 2 years of age, without any of that birth or breastfeeding angst, or sleepless nights, or not knowing what the hell they want, I would have been TTC'ing ages ago. What has made my mind up, is that the potential numbero 2, wont be a baby forever, and will eventually be like DD is now, Ive just got to get through the hard part first (which will take 3 years, counting pregnancy too, but it would get there in the end!). I think I could cope with two toddlers or children, its just the whole logistics of the baby bit that puts me off.
Maybe your next baby will be an angel that will sleep while you do your work If your DS was colicky, then its obviously your turn to have a non colicky baby this time!
Work is also an issue with me, Im the only one in my team who runs a particular therapy group, which is sought after, so if I go off ill or on Maternity, parents are left high and dry. I can just feel my bosses silently willing me not to get pregnant!
DD is also going to preschool in the next few weeks, so it should be easier if sickness does strike.
Im on the April bus at the mo, but due to flu striking down our whole house, theres been no SWI going on at all. So will be popping on the May bus. This TTC business is just a leap of faith I think