Asking for advice re DH who has various pain & mobility issues that last for weeks / months at a time, but also has periods of being pain free.
He doesn't have a diagnosis and has variously been investigated for rheumatoid conditions, Marphans, EDS, fibromyalgia, polymyalgia. His inflammatory markers are raised but nothing definite has been agreed.
Pain is/has been in his shoulder, neck, back and is currently in his knee which is locking. On a good day, he can walk a few miles. Today, he is struggling to move around the house, get in the shower etc and certainly wouldn't be able to drive. He would need to use to crutches to walk out to the car for me to take him anywhere.
The usual pattern seems to be an acute flare up, lasting 2-3 weeks and then weeks/months of gentle exercise and gradual improvement.
I appreciate he would only get standard rate mobility (if at all), but it would cover the cost of a taxi for example to pick DD up from after school club if I am working late.
I'm absolutely clueless about the benefits side of this, but realistically, these episodes have been going on for around fifteen years and as we are both mid fifties, I need to think about the future and plan accordingly.
Can anyone offer advice please?