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Recovery from Herniated Disc: your success stories, tips and advice would be wonderful

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NotOutWoods · 15/05/2024 17:37

Hi there everyone,

I'm new here and wanted to share my story. Just after Christmas, I turned what I suspect was a bulging disc in my lumbar spine into a herniated one when I shifted some heavy boxes in the garage. Up until this point, I didn't realise I had a bulging disc. I was seeing a physio for about three or four months and was on ibuprofen daily, functioning and living a normal life, sleeping through the night. I had some mild burning discomfort in my left calf muscle, but apart from that, I was absolutely fine. And I was getting better.

Then, after Christmas, it all went to hell. I woke up the next day in agony, which I now understand is sciatica. I went into the NHS local A&E because I felt like I couldn't feel my bottom or my bits. They had an emergency look at me and scanned me to make sure that it wasn't cauda equina syndrome. After the scan results came back, it transpired that I had what they described as a mild herniation at L4-L5, with a bulging disc in the disc above. The disc above wasn't pressing on any nerves, so it wasn't causing any issues. The herniation was pressing on, I think, my L5, which caused pain to go down from my left knee to my foot. The pain was pretty excruciating, and it took a toll on my daily life. I was prescribed stronger painkillers and given advice to rest and avoid any heavy lifting or strenuous activity.

For the first three months, I tried to stay active by walking every day, sometimes reaching up to twenty thousand steps. Otherwise, I was lying on the floor. Doing some physio. And taking a range of meds. However, I realised that despite my efforts, the pain and discomfort persisted. I decided to take a month off and focus on resting completely. Surprisingly, this seemed to help the disc heal more effectively.

After that month of rest, I began to reintroduce walking into my routine, starting with short, manageable walks. I did ten days of walking for ten minutes in the morning, ten minutes at lunchtime, and sometimes ten minutes in the evening if I felt up to it. While some days were better than others, the pain never became unbearable, just a persistent discomfort that wouldn't go away.

Recently, I decided to test myself by increasing my walking time to half an hour in the morning and half an hour at lunchtime. So far, I've managed to keep up with this routine for the last two days, and although it's not easy, I seem to be doing okay. However, I do have a bit of a limp and a slight foot drop on my left side, which worries me. And the sciatica is a little more than usual. But I can get it to calm again after some rest.

I'm reaching out to this community for advice, success stories, and any tips you might have for herniated disc recovery. How long did it take you to recover fully? What exercises or treatments helped you the most? Any advice on dealing with the discomfort and maintaining a positive mindset would be greatly appreciated.

I should share that I have seen much improvement since Christmas, and I’m having more good days than bad. Even enjoyed some pain-free days or mornings, although pain usually sets in again at some point. Which can be very disheartening. It is not a linear process.

I’ve noticed in the last week the pain has left my foot and is now mostly in my calf, and the type of pain is shifting all the time. Like lately, sharp jolts in the knee, hip and yesterday the glute! I’ve barely had any back pain throughout these last 19 weeks. But just lately, a kind of prickling there. Nothing major.

I am no longer on gabapentin, nor ibuprofen sadly. And using heat and ice when it gets too much. Saving paracetamol for night. I work for myself and have no dependents, so I can rest on the floor when I need to.

I still can’t sit on the sofa, or drive a car (brings on too much sciatic pain). But I am sleeping so much better (seven hours with some waking moments, caused by only being able to sleep on one side).

Reading Dr Stuart McGill’s Back Mechanic massively helped. I know how to lift stuff, move in bed, get out of bed.. all without pain!

Thank you for taking the time to read my story. I'm looking forward to hearing your experiences and suggestions. But I suspect this injury mostly relies on time to heal!

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justasking111 · 20/10/2024 17:09

I luckily got a very good consultant privately mind. He's the top NHS one in north Wales and north west. He's not keen on surgery because of other side effects. It's been two years now and I'm worse but still on my feet.

I do the exercises just to keep moving. I'm using a cane and consciously trying to stand straight.

I've been told if I lose the use of my legs, bladder, bowel, it's hospital time, which I really don't want our hospital being in special measures is grim. It's full of COVID and norovirus patients just now too.

Mischance · 20/10/2024 18:58

justasking111 · 20/10/2024 17:09

I luckily got a very good consultant privately mind. He's the top NHS one in north Wales and north west. He's not keen on surgery because of other side effects. It's been two years now and I'm worse but still on my feet.

I do the exercises just to keep moving. I'm using a cane and consciously trying to stand straight.

I've been told if I lose the use of my legs, bladder, bowel, it's hospital time, which I really don't want our hospital being in special measures is grim. It's full of COVID and norovirus patients just now too.

I can honestly say I had no side effects of surgery. It simply made me better. The surgeon was top guy from the royal orthopaedic unit. He knew what he was doing. He just cured it.

Triflelife · 20/10/2024 19:08

@Mischance are you in the Uk? was the initial advice you had to have surgery? I’m mostly just curious ans always confused as how the advice can be so different! My neurosurgeon said he would absolutely not recommend surgery for me due to the risks involved outweighing the benefits, which he couldn’t guarantee. It took me three months just to get to have that conversation and luckily I was out of pain by then but still with residual foot drop and numbness in my leg so the lack of pain maybe impacted the recommendation. So glad you got a good outcome it was obviously the right decision for you

NotOutWoods · 20/10/2024 19:59

Hey @Mischance. For various reasons. Similar to why I came off any strong meds as soon as possible. And why i avoided any injections.

I know one of the best back surgeons in the UK. And he advised against all of the above, after looking at my scans. He said come off the drugs as soon as possible for feedback. Injections aren’t a miracle cure. And surgery… only absolutely necessary if it is risking spinal cord compression.

Otherwise, you’re setting yourself up for a lifetime of surgeries. I’d rather do things conservatively. Fix the cause. And ride it out. I’ve got a much better chance. It’s why I didn’t say so the first time around.

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Mischance · 20/10/2024 20:21

TBH I think surgery is fixing the cause. It certainly did for me. Quick and easy ... pain gone! I see no point in suffering unecessarily. I just wanted normal life back asap.

Martymcfly24 · 20/10/2024 20:25

I also had surgery on the L4\L5 disc around 9 years ago. As I said on another thread I had the first pain in January and I had surgery in April. It was a complete success and I had two pregnancies after and only a mild twinge sometimes since then.
The weeks after are frustrating and difficult but to me it was worth it

NotOutWoods · 20/10/2024 20:32

Totally get it @Mischance And you did what you thought was right for you. And thank god you’re better! Truly happy for you. This pain is the worst. But I am opting for the conservative route. And that’s right for me. I’m really confident in that decision. I've weighed up the risks, outcomes… my progress since January, and I believe I will be ok avoiding surgery. I think long-term, I am much better off doing so.

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comewhinewith · 20/10/2024 20:59

justasking111 · 20/10/2024 17:09

I luckily got a very good consultant privately mind. He's the top NHS one in north Wales and north west. He's not keen on surgery because of other side effects. It's been two years now and I'm worse but still on my feet.

I do the exercises just to keep moving. I'm using a cane and consciously trying to stand straight.

I've been told if I lose the use of my legs, bladder, bowel, it's hospital time, which I really don't want our hospital being in special measures is grim. It's full of COVID and norovirus patients just now too.

@justasking111 can I ask who your consultant was please?

justasking111 · 20/10/2024 21:10

comewhinewith · 20/10/2024 20:59

@justasking111 can I ask who your consultant was please?

Yes of course

"Mr Narendra Rath, Spinal Surgery | Nuffield Health" https://www.nuffieldhealth.com/consultants/mr-narendra-kumar-rath

Mr Narendra Rath, Spinal Surgery | Nuffield Health

Mr Narendra Rath is a Consultant Spinal Surgeon at Nuffield Health Chester Hospital.

https://www.nuffieldhealth.com/consultants/mr-narendra-kumar-rath

Starlight7080 · 20/10/2024 21:13

NotOutWoods · 20/10/2024 13:37

Hey @Starlight7080 You want the pain closer to the back long term. If it’s in the foot, that means it’s a fresh injury and your job now is to centralise it. Lots you can do. My advice, go talk to your GP if you haven’t already. And learn spine hygiene as soon as possible.

We are all different. So go speak to the professionals. I wish you a speedy recovery.

Thank you that's good advice . I will speak to my GP.
This post has been very interesting to read

justasking111 · 20/10/2024 21:13

comewhinewith · 20/10/2024 20:59

@justasking111 can I ask who your consultant was please?

"Reviews of Mr Narendra Kumar Rath - Page - iWantGreatCare" https://www.iwantgreatcare.org/doctors/mr-narendra-kumar-rath

Reviews of Mr Narendra Kumar Rath - Page - iWantGreatCare

Patient reviews of Mr Narendra Kumar Rath - Page

https://www.iwantgreatcare.org/doctors/mr-narendra-kumar-rath

comewhinewith · 20/10/2024 21:26

Thank you!

MaidOfAle · 21/10/2024 00:05

Get your physio to find out if you have one leg longer than the other. I put an orthotic in my shoe to compensate for this and it makes standing much more comfortable because my pelvis is level instead of lower on one side.

D cushions are your friend.

Also shoes with a bit of a heel, like Cuban heels kind of height. Takes the strain off the sciatic nerve during day-to-day.

Don't cheap out when buying your mattress and don't rush into choosing it. It needs to hold you in neutral spine with the least pain possible. Everything is worse when your sleep is disrupted. Get Megavents, sleep separately from your spouse, whatever you need to do to get the best possible sleep.

Hogglehedge · 21/10/2024 08:03

NotOutWoods · 20/10/2024 06:07

Sorry you’re suffering @Hogglehedge I got a private MRI for £250 in Manchester but was referred and that was expensive with a private consultant. That was for something else.

Keep fighting for that scan! Or do what I did. I went to A&E and said I couldn’t feel my bum. That’s a sign of something very serious. So they scanned me there and then. I was genuinely numb and worried as hell. Turned out I had a mild herniation and nothing causing any serious harm. But I got the scan.

Funny enough, I’m going for a scan again today. On the NHS. My GP put me on the list in April. I had the chance to go in July but I couldn’t walk much then.

Just take everything anyone tells you with a pinch of salt. My consultant was very doom and gloom. Telling me very old research and stats. Saying I’d never recover. Blah blah. But I expect he doesn’t see many intelligent people who do their own research and have been walking every single day since this happened, determined.

in June, I began a daily routine of strength training and I would say that has made a huge difference overall. Next month I’m beginning a new routine with a personal trainer. Swapping the cost of physio for that. I need to strengthen my back, teach it to bend again. It’s a long journey ahead. But I know I’ll get there.

As for you, spine hygiene! Look up Colin on YouTube of Bash Back Pain. Learn how to move to protect your spine. There are even ways you can get in and out of the car without aggravating things.

Thank you so much. I'm glad things have got better for you . I've subscribed to Collins channel and continuing researching etc. Sending hugs to you all affected with this horrible problem x

Mischance · 21/10/2024 08:06

Everyone has the right to choose how they deal with this problem, but it is important that no-one is put off the cure that surgery can bring when reading this thread. I count myself lucky to have had that option open to me and for the pain free years I have had.

justasking111 · 21/10/2024 08:18

Hogglehedge · 21/10/2024 08:03

Thank you so much. I'm glad things have got better for you . I've subscribed to Collins channel and continuing researching etc. Sending hugs to you all affected with this horrible problem x

What is Collins channel please.

NotOutWoods · 21/10/2024 09:11

Hey @justasking111 It’s Bash Back Pain!

And @Mischance - surgery carries risks. I have a very good chance of making a full recovery without surgery, so that is what I’m opting for. That’s the right decision for me. I’m glad you found something that worked for you, but there is no way in hell I’m having surgery, if I can help it.

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NotOutWoods · 21/10/2024 09:17

An update: my days are getting so much easier now. Barely any pain. Just the odd dull ache or fuzziness. I’m back to normal life, pretty much and think I’ve got a good chance of being recovered by June.

Every week brings a nudge forward. With new freedoms and limits pushed.

I am the fittest I’ve ever been. My body is the optimal weight and I feel fantastic overall. I begin a new routine with a personal trainer next month. Can’t wait!

Ive really worked hard to adjust my lifestyle, work on posture, build strength and fitness, and invest in a few other things for long term
comfort. I can highly recommend John Ryan for mattresses and Fama for sofas and chairs. Going to order a new sofa today actually. It’ll mean Christmas will involve some movie nights and I can get back a relaxing seat without compromising my back!

It’s a long road but I’m so proud of how far I’ve come. And how close I am to being better. Every day I keep going. Because I only have to think of where I was in January to know I am almost there.

Sorry to anyone going through this!

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CaribouCarafe · 21/10/2024 12:24

Wonderful update OP! Wishing you all the best for your continued recovery

justasking111 · 25/10/2024 17:58

Thanks

justasking111 · 25/10/2024 18:08

Well I have to tell you this. It's very strange.

I sleep on my stomach at night and find the pain has eased in the morning but increases as the day goes on. I finally got to thinking what if I lay on the sofa at lunchtime and in the evening instead of sitting. So I tried it. The sofa is a bit short so when I lie down my feet are hanging over the edge. Day three now, the back pain has eased considerably.

Yesterday I over did it. Trawling round the supermarket, bringing in the shopping bit by bit. The sun was shining so decided to clean out the car. Then decided to bring logs in. Gawd was in agony. But a hot bath and lie on the sofa, then bed. I slept like a baby. Woke up feeling okay. Normally I'd have suffered again today.

So has my lying on the sofa on my stomach helped to straighten out my spine, relieved pressure on my discs do you think?

ViciousCurrentBun · 27/10/2024 03:52

Well I am awake in the middle of the night. I stayed laid down after doing my exercises on the floor on my stomach and fell asleep for three hours, waking up at 2am and just can’t get back to sleep. I think I need a new mattress, a much firmer one.

thistlepiedpiper · 27/10/2024 05:13

Morning! Usual 3am wake for me with aches and pains (though the clocks changed so 2 today)
I'm just climbing back into my uncomfortable bed with 2 hot water bottles and a lidocaine patch
I find my feet go freezing when sciatica flares. My hip is numb but also sore... I feel elderly but I'm only 30!
I'll be back to the thread if I don't get back to sleep. I don't know how I've not passed out from lack of sleep yet. I can't handle the broken nights anymore

Op - wondered why you stopped taking gabapentin? Did it stop working for you or did you feel ready to try going without?

blindasaba51981 · 27/10/2024 05:28

I have 2 herniated discs and am on cocodemol, gabapentin amitriptyline. What I found that worked wonders for me initially was acupuncture, it actually allowed me to come off my meds. But then I had to stop as I couldn't afford it any more and once again become reliant on pain meds.

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