i am cooking at MILs. always cook when i am there. really happy to do it.
they always eat at lunch. last year i asked what time best to SIL for her kids (its only MIL, SIL her DH and their two kids, our dd was only 9mo then) and she said 12. That's what we did. We were cleared up by 1 it felt a bit strange.
Dh made some noises about maybe a 5pm tea this year So tea basically for kids. But just spoke to MIL and she said lunch is better for the kids - assuming i might agree. not sure why it's better for the kids. We now have a 21mo and a 6mo. The other GC are now 4 and 2.
Really, I am not so bothered. I really MIL and get on ok with SIL. If that;s what everyone wants so be it. I cook just cause noone their end likes to cook, wheras i do. I don't assume that therefore i have any say in when it is.
BUT i do find it strange to eat big meal at lunch and that lunch to be so early.
Or does everyone have xmas meal at lunchtime?