My adult child and partner came down to vist 13th We moved house on the 16th.
I thought he was going to help us but all he did was complain that he needed to work and there wasnt any Internet.As he cant work from a public space a friend gave him a room at her house to work from.
He finished work on the Friday and over the following days he did help a couple of times putting boxes in the attic.
On Christmas Eve I asked everyone to do a job so I could unpack the last few boxes in the lounge.( there are still lots of unpacked boxes in every room) so we could at least have one room clear for Christmas day.
I asked him to empty a slimline dish washer, which he refused to do until he showered and did a job application.Apparantly I been trying to micro manage his time and this partner said that I was overbearing as a joke, later in the day which I took to heart.
On Christmas day a photo went missing I put it in recycling while trying go get the room straight He was annoyed with me as his partner twas upset.
I did say sorry to his partner but I did say to him if I had a big more help.prehaps I wouldnt have been rushing to try and get things done and would have been more careful
He was furious at this which lead to another argument.
Was I being unreasonable