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A simpler Christmas

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Fatrascal27 · 12/12/2025 06:39

Was thinking about Christmas as I was looking at some family photos from the 70s. Reminded me that Xmas used to be less of the monster it has now become. It is now so driven by consumerism that it starts the day after Guy Fawkes. The shops belt out carols and try to persuade us to spend lots and then on Xmas Eve pull all their decorations down and chuck it all in the sale. Crazy.

Consumerism has totally shifted the timescale. I know we live in a secular society and not everyone observes the old tradition of tree up Xmas Eve and down 12th night etc. but the pace at which it’s moved from a family oriented, quasi religious event to 2 months orgy of consumerism is astonishing. Throw in Black Friday and Cyber Monday too! Capitalism eh.

Yes I’m definitely a bit bah humbug but it does make me a bit nostalgic for simpler Christmases. Sick of seeing Christmas themed butter, toilet bleach ffs! M and S inventing even more weird, complicated desserts, people curating their decorations as if it’s an interiors magazine photo shoot.

I realise this is probably not the first thread like this but is there anyone like me striving to just have a simpler, slower Christmas? Small tree, meaningful presents, no tat, not spending a fortune? I can’t afford to spend a lot anyway but I do like the idea of making it just a bit less complicated. Anyone else?

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GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 12/12/2025 09:27

BluntHazeGuide · 12/12/2025 07:46

I'm not from the UK and I do find the commercial element of Christmas really OTT here. Mainly stuff like the John Lewis advert - why does everyone care so much about a TV advert for a department store?? So bizarre!!

‘Everyone’ doesn’t care - plenty of us give not a teeny little shit.

SeaAndStars · 12/12/2025 09:32

All adults in our family and circle of friends, so maybe easier for us than other people, but a few years ago we decided to step off the whole Christmas juggernaut.

No presents, no tearing around. Just plain and simple November and December. Then a couple of days of lovely food, long crisp walks with a flask of soup and a nip of sloe gin, quiet times at home with feet up, a film and a glass of wine. Then back to plain and simple January with no overdraft, no hangover and no stress.

It's bloody lovely. You can do it how you wish and ignore the commercial/environmental nightmare that it has become.

Prelim · 12/12/2025 09:57

Fatrascal27 · 12/12/2025 08:12

No. I don’t think the full on consumerist onslaught driven by retailers from Nov 6th is just what I’ve seen on social media, no.

Ok, it’s not something I have noticed has got worse, but then I hate shopping and avoid shops wherever possible!! For me it’s actually got better as we watch TV on demand so I haven’t seen an advert in years!

surreygirly · 12/12/2025 10:00

We have a budget for presents of £100
Main part is chatting drinking watching a good film

surreygirly · 12/12/2025 10:01

BluntHazeGuide · 12/12/2025 07:46

I'm not from the UK and I do find the commercial element of Christmas really OTT here. Mainly stuff like the John Lewis advert - why does everyone care so much about a TV advert for a department store?? So bizarre!!

Love xmas am English
Do not see the fuss about an ad from a shop that is desperately trying to extract money from people

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 12/12/2025 10:04

I don't think it's changed massively in our family

You don't have to engage with it alll

Daftypants · 22/12/2025 09:50

Some of my neighbours go all out in every way !
However , I appreciate a quieter time and dislike the consumerism , over consumption and waste .
I have been to a beautiful Carol Service in a stunning setting which really lifted my spirits.
We have a decorated tree and have sent and received Christmas cards to/ from those people who are a bit too far away to visit right now .
We make time to see them other times of the year when the weather is better and we have the energy .
We will exchange a few gifts among ourselves ( very nice versions of things we need and can use up ) on Christmas Day and have a nice dinner with a nice dessert

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