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Ohwhatfuckeryitistoride · 12/12/2024 15:41

So much sm stuff is about making memories, whether manufactured or real, but what is the lovely Christmas memory that sticks in your mind, even if you’ve never shared it with anyone?
Mine was the first we moved where we lived, my twins were 4 1/2 and we went on a trip with other school mums to the panto. One twin was pretty shy and wasn’t bothered about going but as soon as it started he was stood up laughing so hard he was crying. He was stood right behind one of the grans of the kids and I was trying to get him to calm down, but she turned round and said no that’s what the pantos for, let the Bairn have fun.” And she was calling out with him at all the audience participation bits.

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OctoblocksAssemble · 12/12/2024 15:58

It's not really something I can voice out loud, because Christmas is 'for kids', but my favourite Christmases so far were as a young adult. Dm and I would make a ginger bread house on Christmas eve, with varying success. Then I'd meet up with dear friend 1, and we'd go meet dear friend 2 and her family at the pub, stay until midnight then get a cab back to my flat. Dear friend 1 spent a good few Christmases with me and my parents after her parents divorced, and she refused to choose between them for Christmas day. She was veggie back then, and DM would always put loads of effort into making that year's BBC good food magazine featured veggie main, which dear friend 1 would nibble at, but really all she wanted were the trimmings and gravey (tried to tell DM every year but she wouldn't have it). We'd do a Jigsaw puzzle, watch Christmas TOTP, and in the evening make a treacle sponge and left over sandwiches for dinner, and watch the doctor who Christmas special.
It was so fun and chilled.
Friends now have their own families, DM is severely disabled, and I spend the day making sure my own kids have a nice time, which is fine but not remotely chilled. Hopefully when they are older I can bring back some of the traditions I loved.
Sorry for the essay.

TeamMandrake · 12/12/2024 16:12

My own childhood Christmas memories are (surprisingly, for an atheist!) centred around church. I remember the magic of being in the church in the evening, to rehearse for the nativity, and the ice cream and jelly at the sunday school xmas party.

At home, I remember my mum singing jingle bells to get everyone up in the morning, an amazing crayola crayon set with every colour ever, and staring at the multi-coloured xmas tree lights in wonder.

I remember, pre-kids, a lovely, snowy, xmas day cycle with DH.

Since the DC were born, my favourite memories are of hanging the stocking up the night before (and youngest DS taking a bite out of Rudolf's carrot and the mince pie when our backs were turned - first when he was too little to understand, and now as a tradition). Last year was a highlight - DS asked for a present which took a massive amount of time and effort to put together, and his amazement was totally worth it.

I have a mixed memory of a lovely weekend away, a few days before xmas one year. We had one amazing chilled out day, in and out the hot-tub, watching the Grinch, playing with lego and making xmas crafts. Then we caught Nicola Sturgeon on the radio announcing January school closures and a second lockdown, which put a dampener on things.

However, I think my favourite memories are of sitting in bed on xmas morning, after DH has made coffee and fetched the stockings, with the kids super excited, knowing there are loads of presents downstairs, but excitedly opening stockings together.

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