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Something special to do on Christmas Day afternoon?

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FlyingPi · 08/12/2024 23:44

Okay, so for the first time ever we won't have any family members to stay or to visit on Christmas Day as they're all elsewhere. So it's just partner, child and me. We live in a city. Morning is taken care of with opening presents. We have the big meal around lunchtime, don't go over the top so it doesn't take too long to prepare. Evening is telly, enjoying presents, eating lots of junk etc.

BUT what to do in the afternoon? That's usually when we would have visited grandparents. Sure, we'll go out for a walk with the dog, but that's not particularly special as we take him to the park every day. We're not religious so no church. I like the idea of volunteering and asked at the local community centre if they needed help with the meal they're doing for vulnerable people, but they said they couldn't have children involved as some of the guests may be unpredictable etc. I'm not aware of any other volunteering events in walkable distance. We also recently moved so don't know our neighbours too well, many of them are a different religion anyway and probably don't celebrate. Friends will be busy with their own families.

Sure, we could slump in front of the telly all day, but personally I'll get bored, I'd rather keep that for evening. Board games, fine, but again we play them a lot, and it doesn't feel particularly Christmassy. I'd like to go out somewhere but the restaurants that are open are all doing full on meals, which I'd rather have at home.

If anyone has ANY random ideas for something that would feel quite special please share!

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sashh · 10/12/2024 04:38

Do you drive OP?

I know that places that put on Xmas lunch for pensioners always have volunteers to take them to the venue but struggle to get them in the afternoon due to people drinking.

The cinema does sound perfect for you though.

Also just a walk around looking at the lights with no crowds.

When I was a child Sundays were for 'window shopping' but now with longer opening you never get to see empty cities in the UK.

I wouldn't worry about your neighbours being a different religion you could start a new custom of taking them some mince pies or something.

FlyingPi · 10/12/2024 13:49

Oh, that's a lovely idea. Would be great for holidays.

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FlyingPi · 10/12/2024 13:53

Imbusytodaysorry · 09/12/2024 04:26

Does your child want to be as busy on Xmas day . ?
Christmas is usually a mad relaxed . Cooking and eating .

Cant you do a later lunch ?
learn to relax and let your child play?

He's quite a lazy child, he won't play (certainly not by himself) and isn't greatly into toys, lego etc. Board games are good but we do play them a lot and he just got three new ones for his birthday last month so there won't be any new ones this Christmas. Unless we provide an activity, he'll default to a screen if allowed, moaning if not. He's not able to read independently yet either. Only children, it's a challenge!

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FlyingPi · 10/12/2024 13:58

reluctantbrit · 09/12/2024 08:25

We always are just three and enjoy actually a quite afternoon after all the mad rush in December with lot of weekends with plans and activities.

Watching a movie, playing with new toys, a board game. If the weather is good, we may go to the woods as our local park will be full of children on their new bikes/scooters.

I think you want to replica a full on afternoon but that's not really necessary I think.

Maybe you're right. I think I partly feel weird about not having family to visit/stay this year. And in my childhood Christmas was all about going to church in the morning, so it felt like you were supposed to "do" something. Honestly I was usually bored rigid on Christmas Day, and if it were solely up to me I'd probably either book a holiday abroad or just get myself a nice book. I guess I'm quite lazy too! But I feel kind of pressured to make things special and Christmassy for him. Moving house etc, it's not been an easy year.

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FlyingPi · 10/12/2024 14:00

sashh · 10/12/2024 04:38

Do you drive OP?

I know that places that put on Xmas lunch for pensioners always have volunteers to take them to the venue but struggle to get them in the afternoon due to people drinking.

The cinema does sound perfect for you though.

Also just a walk around looking at the lights with no crowds.

When I was a child Sundays were for 'window shopping' but now with longer opening you never get to see empty cities in the UK.

I wouldn't worry about your neighbours being a different religion you could start a new custom of taking them some mince pies or something.

Unfortunately don't drive, that does sound a nice idea though.
With the lights, I mean it'd just be looking at other people's Christmas trees through their windows, round the same streets we're walking about every day? I guess I'm not getting how that would be any different to just a walk? Am I being dense?😛

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FlyingPi · 10/12/2024 14:03

ThatIsNotMyNameSoWhyAreYouCallingMeThat · 09/12/2024 17:27

Volunteer at a soup kitchen?

There is an event like this in our area but I already asked and they don't feel it's suitable for kids to come to because it's aimed at mental health service users. We decided to take in some food donations for it a few days before however.

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TeamPolin · 10/12/2024 15:15

Arts and craft kit? Baker Ross have loads of Christmas themed arts and craft stuff.

Or decorate a gingerbread house? You can buy kits from Lakeland and Lidl.

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