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On my own Christmas Day

25 replies

TheHighPriestess1 · 24/11/2024 13:28

On my own Christmas Day starting to feel sad about it now

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Peridot1 · 24/11/2024 13:35

Make a plan to have a totally indulgent day doing whatever the hell you like. There are always people on here alone on Christmas day and there’s usually a thread. There are also a few threads I’ve seen from others who will be alone and people have given some great suggestions of what to do.

CandlesOrangesRedribbon · 24/11/2024 13:36

Op can you do anything to cheer yourself up, get really special food, films or books podcast lined up.
Can you make your space Xmassy?

TENSsion · 24/11/2024 13:40

Hotel for the day and night! With a sauna and pool preferably.

I’d be very indulgent.

Starfish89 · 24/11/2024 13:53

I am sorry to hear that OP. I have very little family and feel sad at this time of year too. I second the suggestion above if you have the means. Take yourself off somewhere and be indulgent!

BCBird · 24/11/2024 13:55

I am too. Will see friends on 27th' my choice. Debating whether to cook something nice or not.

TheHighPriestess1 · 24/11/2024 16:13

TENSsion · 24/11/2024 13:40

Hotel for the day and night! With a sauna and pool preferably.

I’d be very indulgent.

If I had the funds I would definitely do this x

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TheHighPriestess1 · 24/11/2024 16:15

I’m seeing my son and his Dad (ex) Christmas Eve so will make the best of that

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TheFormidableMrsC · 24/11/2024 16:16

I'd get loads of nice M&S food in, lots of nibbles too and some wine (or whatever you like to drink), line up some films and have a lovely peaceful day. I am a little envious!

whatthehelldowecare · 24/11/2024 16:19

I was on my own last Christmas because DH was working and family dynamics meant I couldn't go to my in-laws.

I just got loads of nice m&s bits and lay on the sofa all day. I was 5 months pregnant too, so the chilled Christmas I needed before the carnage of this year 😆

Soccermumamir · 24/11/2024 16:20

I would definitely have a pamper day. Get up late, stay in PJs, watch xmas films, eat and drink whatever you want, have a long hot bubble bath later on, go for a walk if you want to get out of the house. Christmas day is what you make of it. We have a very relaxing day, because I can not be bothered with all the fuss and drama. We see friends and family before the day, MIL pops round after lunch for a bit, other than that we have a nice Xmas dinner, and love watching the NBA later on with a glass of fizz 🙂

KnickerlessParsons · 24/11/2024 16:41

Perhaps you could get together with this lady

Anyone celebrating Xmas just not the 25th? http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/amiibeingunreasonable/5216769-anyone-celebrating-xmas-just-not-the-25th

StormingNorman · 24/11/2024 16:45

I would be staying in my pyjamas, watching TV, drinking mulled wine by the bucket and grazing on Christmas snacks all day. Enjoy being lazy and having no one to please but yourself.

MarketValveForks · 24/11/2024 16:48

What's your (nearest) city? Would you be interested in a solo-at-christmas meetup with others in a similar situation?

Lots of separated parents have Christmas Day alone 50% of the years. There will be no shortage if you reach out.

Autumn38 · 24/11/2024 16:51

another idea is volunteer somewhere? I don’t think I could spend Christmas Day totally alone so would be looking for a meet up as a PP said, or I think I’d possibly prefer even to volunteer so that I felt like some good was coming out of me being free to do something and help others.

prayerforsun · 24/11/2024 16:51

If I was on my own Christmas Day I'd do one of the following...

Option 1. See if there's any single friends looking for company Christmas Day and arrange something with them.

Option 2. Find a street kitchen/local charity to volunteer with for the day (there's one by us that cooks a big group Christmas dinner for anyone who's alone at Christmas)

Option 3. Wrap up warm and go for a walk after breakfast to a local beauty spot - there are always dog walkers out Christmas Day so at least there would be people/dogs to say hello to. Then I'd come home and have a bubble bath with a glass of fizz. I'd put some clean pyjamas on and watch some Xmas films. Probably have a snooze then have my favourite tv dinner or favourite snacks in the evening.

Sprig1 · 24/11/2024 16:54

Would you rather be with other people? Our local fb page always has people offering to host those who will be alone for Christmas. Maybe keep an eye out for similar. Alternatively, get in all your favourite things and make a day of it.

BunnyLake · 24/11/2024 16:59

Nice food and good chocolate and maybe a bottle of fizzy wine (I’m not a drinker) would do wonders for me.

If you really need company then I agree with pp and try some volunteering.

Berlinlover · 24/11/2024 17:00

I spent several Christmas Days alone before I met my partner. I got some nice food in and watched TV all day. It’s unheard of here in Ireland to spend Christmas Day alone, somehow I’d say it’s probably more acceptable in the UK (assuming that’s where you are).

Bobbi730 · 24/11/2024 17:01

I have a friend who always used to volunteer with a soup kitchen on Christmas Day then she'd come home and eat loads of snacks and watch films. I have youngish kids but it looks like a plan for the future xx

Cynic17 · 24/11/2024 17:04

OP, you don't know how lucky you are!
Have a lie in, read a good book, stay in your PJs, eat nothing but chocolate ...... you can do whatever you like.
No awful relatives, no arguments, no terrible Xmas dinner.
I promise you, you'll have a much better day than pretty much everyone else you know.

DemonicCaveMaggot · 24/11/2024 17:06

My mother used to get some nice food in and a bottle of champagne and watch totally unsuitable movies like Halloween. She would go to church in the morning as she was a bell ringer.

whatisforteamum · 24/11/2024 17:08

I think the trick is to either buy all the bits you love to eat,ring relatives,go for a nice walk enjoy Xmas eve with your Ex and ds.
Alot of hype is put into Christmas and for many it's not this magical day.
When I worked over the Christmas period I still tried to grab a nice Xmas moment at some point.
It's 24 hours and will go quickly.

AdaColeman · 24/11/2024 17:08

Don't feel sad @TheHighPriestess1!

Instead, get busy planning....get a stack of books to read, on Kindle or from charity shop bargains, get together a list of films to watch on iPlayer etc, get some puzzle books or jigsaws if you like them, or the materials to start a craft project.
Plan some easy but tasty food for the day, maybe try some supermarket party food?
Have some cheerful Christmas music ready to play.
Treat yourself to a new nail varnish and lipstick, get some hand cream and a face pack for a pamper session.

Remember that it is only one day, and it soon passes. Have a lovely time on Christmas Eve with your DS. 🎄 🎄 🎄 🎄

bananaboats · 24/11/2024 17:08

I'll be on my own most of the day as DH is working. I'll Be having a pyjama day, nice drinks & snacks snuggled up on the couch with the cats watching Xmas movies. I'm looking forward to a nice relaxing day as lots of plans around the day itself!

FinallyHere · 24/11/2024 17:23

Another vote for planning lots of things you might do, rather than expecting to feel sad about it even this far in advance.

In this situation, I make it a point to find out just how many things I could do. Staying in PJs all day watching TV and eating luxury food is much more fun if you are actively choosing to not do something else rather than listlessly not having anything else to do.

As well as the usual volunteering opportunities , I'd be tempted to consider something like the mid night service at King's College, Cambridge. Find out how to get tickets, when I last looked it was a case of dressing very very warmly and just queueing g for hours. Might not be your thing but crowds in those kind of situations do tend to be quite warm and friendly so can be a good all round experience.

Churches in London can also be very welcoming, especially the minority group ones such as the Scandinavian ones. As a family we lived abroad for many years and would always scoop up and visitors to come home for what would turn out to be quite a chaotic drinks and nibbles kind of event.

There are B loads of these kind of things happening up and down the country. The trick is to find the ones that appeal to you. Meetup.vom might be a rich source. They may be events closer to home which would be very glad of an extra pair of hands to help with their arrangements.

A morning walk flowed by an indulgent lunch and an afternoon of entertainment from the TV Or streaming services might not be so bad after all.

All the best.

Have fun in finding the really wacky options and, if that's what you

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