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Has anyone successfully rented a place for Christmas Day lunch?

41 replies

BeetleDeuce · 15/11/2023 13:14

We have around 35 relatives etc who would like to meet for Christmas Day lunch. DH and I are happy to pay for it (most are struggling!) and happy to cater (I’ve done it before) but there is no one with a house even vaguely big enough for 8, never mind this number.

We obviously can’t afford to go to a restaurant or similar because it’s around £200 pp but wanted to hire somewhere. I’ve tried a couple of places but no joy.

Has anyone successfully hired a place on Christmas Day for this sort of event? Any advice would be welcome. I really don’t want to spend the day driving between all the old people’s houses again. 😭

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gofullpelt · 15/11/2023 17:55

WeightWhat · 15/11/2023 17:43

Hotel function room. Or sports club.

You can hire the local rugby club bar for like £100 near me.

That's a good shout - we have a local rugby, football and cricket club who all have a function room.

Wtafis · 15/11/2023 17:58

Were hiring a village hall for Xmas day for this reason this year. They were happy to let it as a one off

DanceMumTaxi · 15/11/2023 17:59

A colleague at school does this (village hall) with friends and family. They all help out. It sounds like so much fun.

GrumpyPanda · 15/11/2023 18:00

You say it's a large town. Are there any cooking studio type of places? Available for rent to hold classes. Don't know if Slow Food is much of a thing in the UK but they tend to hold their events at exactly this kind of location, and most of them would probably stretch to 25 people.

Sidebeforeself · 15/11/2023 18:08

Do they all have to get together at once? Could you do 2 “ seatings?!”

OhpoorMe · 15/11/2023 18:18

You can eat out for ALOT less than £200pp on Christmas Day! Would that be an option?

Quitelikeacatslife · 15/11/2023 18:33

Nagado · 15/11/2023 16:27

A colleague of mine does this with her huge family every year. They hire the hall between Christmas Eve (to decorate and get things prepped) to Boxing Day when everyone cleans up. Everyone is in charge of something, from tablecloths to the turkey, to tea & coffee and board games. Someone with a van brings their sofa for the nans and there’s always a random uncle who dresses up as Father Christmas.

Get the heating on as soon as you get there, put some music on, string up some fairy lights and some tinsel and stick a tree up. You don’t need to decorate the whole hall, just where the table is. Lots of battery operated tea lights will make it look very cosy.

I love the sound of this!

AgentProvocateur · 15/11/2023 18:43

Look also at scout halls (often smaller and cosier than village halls) and scout/guide residential centres, which will have decent kitchens.

Ohdearwhatnow4 · 15/11/2023 18:54

A British legion might work, ours have 3 halls the main hall which will be full of members having their xmas drink and then a smaller hall which is used for other events, like a saloon bar then a big hall upstairs.

DesignatedRoom · 15/11/2023 19:01

Some village halls have a separate 'committee room' available for hire which is much smaller than the main hall but could easily accommodate a table of 35. The one I know of has carpets and bookcases too. Very cosy!

123ZYX · 15/11/2023 19:09

Who are the 35 people? Why would it be down to just you to deliver meals to all the elderly relatives?

Favouritefruits · 15/11/2023 19:13

Our local church hall is £50 for 2.5 hours with full cooking facilities I think a church hall is your best bet, the church won’t use their hall on Xmas day I shouldn’t think.

BeetleDeuce · 15/11/2023 21:24

gotomomo · 15/11/2023 17:44

If you are in the greater Bristol area I can rent you a hall. You would need to precook offsite because it doesn't have the capacity to cook for 35 from scratch but if you're close enough you could pull it off. Otherwise speak to village halls, churches etc - many of us have lock boxes for keys these days so staff availability isn't an issue.

This is very kind! We aren’t near enough unfortunately. But it’s a lovely thought.

There’s loads of good ideas here - thank you all. It’s made me realise that my town does lack a lot of these useful places though! Shame really.

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booksandbrooks · 15/11/2023 21:53

You said you looked at a few places that have said "no parties" but they usually mean students/ stags/ hens etc. It's worth contacting them individually and asking specifically about your event. A family Christmas get together is usually a massively different proposition (unless you're all wild Grin)

Also look further afield, if the alternative is driving round numerous houses visiting you may as well drive a bit further in one journey.

Also there are definitely much cheaper dinners per head available so I'd still shop around for that too.

Good luck.

caringcarer · 15/11/2023 22:01

Try a local cricket club. They are not often open out of season and some have decent kitchens. Where abouts do you live in country OP maybe it would be easier if we knew where you were? I know of a cricket club about 8 miles from Birmingham.

CityCommuter · 15/11/2023 23:52

@BeetleDeuce what about enquiring at one of the local pubs who serve food but would be closed on Christmas Day? It would be warm and cosy and their insurance might provide better cover than a typical restaurant...

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