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Christmas gifts in difficult circumstances

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LimitedBrightSpots · 14/11/2023 11:27

My father (70) is acutely ill in hospital. He is stable and functioning well, if you know what I mean, but will likely be an in-patient for the next 2-3 months at least (so essentially confined to one small hospital room) and overall prognosis is currently uncertain. He was well until a few weeks ago so this has come as a bit of a shock. My mother (65) is still working part-time and visiting him 4-5 times a week. Her life is now work and the hospital, essentially. Siblings and I are visiting whenever we can (2-3 weekends a month and also trying to go midweek sometimes) but we all live at a distance/have young children at school and work commitments, so it's not as often as we would like.

To anyone who has been in this situation, what gifts (Christmas or otherwise) would have been appreciated and might have made things easier? Particularly for my father, he is facing the situation with incredible courage but it is quite an anxious and worrying time for him and, between resting and treatment, he has a lot of time essentially cooped up in a room by himself.

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TryingToMakeSenseOfIt · 16/11/2023 12:28

Shower gels, wet wipes, deodorant, comfortable pyjamas (those hospital ones aren't so nice), puzzle books/notepad and pen, dominoes? Cards? Some of his favourite music downloaded so that he can play it.

Sugarfree23 · 16/11/2023 12:42

Another idea for them both would be an Amazon subscription, gives both TV and Music, useful for mum travelling on the bus. I think sometimes in hospital, where your ill it's nice just to listen to music when your too tired to concentrate on watching something.

An amazon dot or something to ask to play music.

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