What can I get my Mum for Christmas?

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My Mum is mid 70s but disability and very poor health means she is old for age and has been for a long time. She has never had any interests or hobbies. She occasionally goes shopping but generally doesn’t leave the house. I would struggle to take her out with the kids in tow and I can’t do something you book in advance because she is so frequently ill. In the past I’ve done magazine subscription but she doesn’t even read them now, chocolates, new plants but she has millions, heated blanket went down well. She cant wear slippers and is difficult to buy clothes for. She likes particular toiletries so I feel that’s not a gift. Does anyone have any ideas please?

How about, A bird table and food to be placed outside her window,
or audio books.
Or depending how much you want to spend a subscription for flowers to be delivered monthly

What does she do all day? Not being cheeky but is it watch tv/listen to music/ read? Then can think of ideas?

Are the plants you mentioned house plants? If so, how about one of those lovely copper indoor watering cans? Or if not copper, a quick google is bringing up nice ones from Burgon & Ball and Sass & Belle. Or a plant mister?

R.e the heated blanket - was it one you sit under on the sofa? If she likes that, how about a heated mattress topper for her bed?

You mention she can't wear slippers - how about a heated foot warmer if she's sat on a sofa a lot?

has she got bad leg circulation?, my mum is 82 and rather stiff, I got her last year one of those small vibro -plate things as advertised on tv. she rather enjoys it

Watches TV. Isn’t interested in getting Britbox or Netflix.

What is your budget?

My mum is similar to yours and after exhausting all ideas last year, I settled on a Tempur ergonomic pillow. It was most appreciated.

I bought my mum a small cashmere throw/large scarf she keeps it folded on the arm of her chair and puts it round her neck or over her knees when she feels a chill.

Wild-life
A bird-feeder that can be attached to your window is constantly entertaining for little effort. Birds are bright and cheerful when there isn't much colour to see outside. They can be repeat visitors and seem like pets.

Sport
Perhaps she'd enjoy having a share in a race-horse? It would make racing more entertaining and there is probably more of a shared community feel to this too. I think there are sites (e.g. OldGoldRacing) that let you have a part-share in a horse for £60.

Entertainment
Audible has been great for my Mum. She loves listening to stories with her eyes closed - and says it really helps when sleeping is difficult.

Nostalgia
A bottle of wine/port/brandy from a year that she would enjoy remembering? There is something special about thinking the fruit for it was gathered in the very summer that a certain wedding/birthday/holiday happened.

Traditional things
If she likes particular scents/soaps etc - choose something like them but more luxurious/expensive beautifully packaged? (Not an everyday thing)

Perfume.
nice scarf
socks with grips on them or wide socks
hairdresser or chiropodist home visit
jumper
afternoon tea delivered

Freddie’s flowers subscription

I’ve bought quite a few relatives the long hot water bottles from TK Maxx, fluffy covers and are great for warming up the bed or yourself.

Has she got an Echo dot? Or a Kindle?

what about a bird feeder that sticks to a window she sits by?
Here is an example, but you can get all different varieties from other places also, depending on your budget:
shopping.rspb.org.uk/bird-feeders-boxes-tables/bird-feeders/window-feeders/window-bird-feeder.html

How about some nice fluffy/brushed bedding to keep her warm?

A picture of both of you?

My mum is in a similar boat. She didn't want a kindle. Got one anyway a fair few years ago now and she loves it so much and says it's so much easier to hold than a book.

So far this year I've got her a gillet and not much else.