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Christmas Nostalgia Then Vs Now

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VeronicaFranklin · 21/11/2022 20:27

Christmas time always makes me feel nostalgic.

What is something you had or did at Christmas as a kid that you don't now and miss?

For me it's:

Family (Grandparents specifically)

Foil Christmas decorations that were hung with blue tack from the ceiling in every room...

We always left Sherry out for Santa...

Angel hair tree tinsel that you wistfully sprinkled all over the tree...cat...dog...carpet...

The selection boxes shaped as a Stocking with netting on...

Multi- coloured Christmas tree lights (the old style glass ones that used to get hot to touch and probably presented a massive fire hazard! not the LED coloured ones of today)

Toys R Us advert

Annual trip to see Santa at the Arndale which was usually some bloke who had a really cheap looking wig and beard and was probably not DBS checked!

Only having 5 TV channels so you had to sit and watch Christmas movies when they were scheduled to be on, which some how made it more exciting to watch Christmas films when they weren't available to watch all year round.

Christmas shopping with my grandma looking in the bustling high street department stores, no online shopping.

Searching the sky for Santa on Christmas Eve not tracking him on an app.

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mam0918 · 25/11/2022 12:33

YetAnotherSpartacus · 25/11/2022 11:24

Secondly dont feel sorry for us and our AMAZING christmas that dont cow down to every man and his dog... I grew up as just a nuclear family and LOVED it, my kid are growing up as a nuclear family and LOVE it, DH grew up half and half and HATED the big family years.

People probably don't want to visit you anyway.

Also how better of you to laugh at the fact most of my family are dead... if thats the kind of people who have people visiting them then Im proud not to be like you.

PlaitBilledDuckyPuss · 25/11/2022 12:37

Have we had Turkish Delight in octagonal boxes yet - rose and lemon, in icing sugar? That always appeared in our house at Christmas.

Also fairy lights where you had to change one of the bulbs if you wanted them to flash - my dad searching for which bulb it was. I miss the old fairy lights with proper twinkly bulbs.

Notmybloodymonkeys · 25/11/2022 13:09

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If anyone’s turned nasty on this thread it’s you - it really was a nice thread until your first comment.

DH and I don’t have kids unfortunately so it’s been lovely for me to read these posts and reminisce about all the wonderful Christmases I’ve had. Now they’re very different and not what I imagined for us but I’m not so much of a dick to start ranting because my current experience isn’t the same as everyone else’s.

CorporateBull · 25/11/2022 15:52

I did say in my post that I lost both my parents young and no longer have a big family Christmas, for which I feel sorry for my kids, so perhaps you could see that I know that it can be hard not to have one. I have spent Christmas entirely by myself and with strangers in the past because I was left with so few family. Only when I had my own children did Christmas become bearable again.

But my point in posting was that I was reading so many comments about how much people who had grandparents and relatives there remember that fondly, and so often now we seem to talk about how difficult big Christmases are and how stressful it can be to spend the time with extended family, and yet as children we valued those people there, even those I suspect our parents were feeling many of those things. It made me think about those different perspectives.

Always4Brenner · 25/11/2022 15:53

PlaitBilledDuckyPuss · 25/11/2022 12:37

Have we had Turkish Delight in octagonal boxes yet - rose and lemon, in icing sugar? That always appeared in our house at Christmas.

Also fairy lights where you had to change one of the bulbs if you wanted them to flash - my dad searching for which bulb it was. I miss the old fairy lights with proper twinkly bulbs.

I love the lemon Turkish delight must try to find it again online.

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 25/11/2022 16:14

Coffee cremes
my mum’s trifle, although I made her make one last year for nostaliga’s sake.
my dad getting all stressed that the Christmas lights were all tangled up and ending up buying a new set 😂. How did he do it? We’ve never managed to tangle the Christmas lights on my whole adult life!

FlowersareEverything · 25/11/2022 16:35

The Christmas lights were a law unto themselves. Ours never worked first time, so my granny would instruct us to say a Hail Mary. If that didn’t work we had to bring out the big guns — a Memorare. All the while my father was effing and blinding (not under his breath). 😂 Inevitably the search party was sent to find spare bulbs. Great times 😁

Hobbesmanc · 25/11/2022 16:39

Seventies child here. I remember there being a whole sequence of events to look forward to.

At primary school we'd start rehearsals for the school nativity and carol service. There would be craft sessions to make table decorations and calendars. Lots of blu tack, tinsel and sprayed pasta shapes. There was also a toy swap morning where kids brought in unwanted toys to swap.

There was a post box in the lobby and every day one of the teachers would come around dropping off cards. It was a small village school and everyone sent cards to all their class mates plus the teachers , caretaker cooks and dinner ladies.

The last few days before break up was hectic. There was always a school party with a disco and games and a buffet with salmon paste buns and jam tarts. One of the school lunches was a proper Christmas dinner with all the trimmings.

Everyone brought in games to play the last couple of days and I remember watching cartoons on the projector in the main assembly hall.

The Christmas show was an evening and it was always exciting to be in school in the dark shoeing off to family. Adults had punch and mulled wine and we had hot black currant . The headmaster dressed as Santa and little gifts were given out.

It was a church primary so we'd attend a Kriskringle carol service with our orange and candle. My family were very churchy so I'd attend all the services and invariably had to sing a solo. Not that I could sing that well. There just weren't many congregants.

On the Sunday before Christmas there'd be mince pies in church after the service. When I was older we were allowed to join the carol singers. The best evening was the farms and outlying houses. Lots of walking but there was always an invite in for cake and treats. Grown ups were usually pissed by the end and went to the pub.

There were other village events too although I guess we probably only went some years. A pie and peas barn dance, the rotary kids party, the village players panto.

The lead up to Christmas was busy. We only had a small artificial tree that was a little battered but it was a real treat to decorate. We had our own section of wall to stick up our cards. Lights were always going off. Only one set of course.

We only had one tv but one Christmas mum rented a Betamax video for two weeks from rumbelows. It was the best thing ever. We looked forward to the radio and tv times special Christmas editions and circled the films we wanted to see.

The fridge started filling up with Christmas stuff. Blue cheese, brandy butter. Bowls of nuts. ,marzipan dates and for some reason Bombay mix appeared although we weren't allowed them till Christmas Eve

Christmas Eve itself was board games and cards. No telly. When we were older we went to midnight mass with my granny and great aunts. We had pillow cases as stockings and always left a carrot and a mince pie out.

Christmas Day was an early start always at home with my widowed granny staying. We did stockings in my mums bed. Then the family presents under the tree after a cooked breakfast that always included fried tinned potatoes. My favourite

Mums friends and the neighbours popped in for a Sherry or baby Cham throughout the day. We ate late after the queens speech which meant I always missed the Bond movie. I guess dinner was fairly traditional although I always preferred the cold turkey and bread sauce butties later on.

I remember the period after Christmas Day as been lots of house visits with cold buffets, Christmas cake always with Wensleydale and lots of walks.

Sorry for the long post. I'm sure no ones going to read it lol. But gave me pleasure to recall such memories

CorporateBull · 25/11/2022 16:41

That was a lovely post and I read it all!

Hobbesmanc · 25/11/2022 16:43

CorporateBull · 25/11/2022 16:41

That was a lovely post and I read it all!

Thank you. I've had a rubbish few months and just sharing those memories made me feel a little but more cheerful xxx.

PlaitBilledDuckyPuss · 25/11/2022 17:18

@Hobbesmanc I related to much in your post about the build up at school, Christmas concert and so on. There really was nothing like the build up to Christmas at primary school to get you into the Christmas spirit!

Rather a shock when I started secondary school and the teachers resisted Christmas interference as much as possible. I still remember one teacher storming 'In this school we work until the last minute!' when some people were trying to give Christmas cards out on the last day of term! Bah humbug Xmas Grin

Always4Brenner · 25/11/2022 17:24

CorporateBull · 25/11/2022 16:41

That was a lovely post and I read it all!

Same here.

Always4Brenner · 25/11/2022 17:25

PlaitBilledDuckyPuss · 25/11/2022 17:18

@Hobbesmanc I related to much in your post about the build up at school, Christmas concert and so on. There really was nothing like the build up to Christmas at primary school to get you into the Christmas spirit!

Rather a shock when I started secondary school and the teachers resisted Christmas interference as much as possible. I still remember one teacher storming 'In this school we work until the last minute!' when some people were trying to give Christmas cards out on the last day of term! Bah humbug Xmas Grin

And only one week of carols when I was used to nativity rehearsals was a shock when I moved schools.

Winniewonka · 25/11/2022 17:31

Child of the Sixties, it's 'exciting' food & drink that I remember well. Growing up, food was so bloody boring - boiled/mashed potatoes, mince/sausages, cabbage, carrot, Swede, peas on repeat. Hard to believe but chicken was a luxury item.
However, at Christmas my mother would buy these wonderful, spreadable, cheese triangles with tiny bits of ham, prawn or paprika flavoured. A box of Ritz crackers and some cheese footballs out of a tub.
Tins of Quality Street, Black Magic and Cadbury's Contrast chocolates.
Snowballs made from Advocaat & lemonade with a Maraschino cherry and my favourite Stones Ginger Wine in a dark green bottle which i would have with tonic water. I saw some the other day and was shocked to see it was alcoholic! Am quite tempted to buy a bottle😀

kateandme · 25/11/2022 17:48

Panto
genuinely too excited to sleep
grans trifle
family
grans trifle
a sack FULL
late night Christmas shopping
the body shop products
eating
games
snuggling with mum
just being together

PlaitBilledDuckyPuss · 25/11/2022 17:55

Winniewonka · 25/11/2022 17:31

Child of the Sixties, it's 'exciting' food & drink that I remember well. Growing up, food was so bloody boring - boiled/mashed potatoes, mince/sausages, cabbage, carrot, Swede, peas on repeat. Hard to believe but chicken was a luxury item.
However, at Christmas my mother would buy these wonderful, spreadable, cheese triangles with tiny bits of ham, prawn or paprika flavoured. A box of Ritz crackers and some cheese footballs out of a tub.
Tins of Quality Street, Black Magic and Cadbury's Contrast chocolates.
Snowballs made from Advocaat & lemonade with a Maraschino cherry and my favourite Stones Ginger Wine in a dark green bottle which i would have with tonic water. I saw some the other day and was shocked to see it was alcoholic! Am quite tempted to buy a bottle😀

I'm a child of the 70s but I don't think food had moved on much! Yes to 'special Christmas food' - and the massive treat of ordering 'pop' from the milkman - lemonade, cola, orangeade, cream soda and limeade. Fizzy drinks were for Christmas and birthdays only, so it was really exciting when the crate of pop turned up!

CorporateBull · 25/11/2022 18:47

So much of this thread resonates with me. There is something so powerfully nostalgic about childhood Christmas.

Also

Watching the adverts in the run up and passionately WANTING Guess Who. Seeing the presents start to be put under the tree and feeling/shaking them to work out what they might be.

Putting together our little Lego Father Christmas sleigh, the same one every year.

Pigs in blankets! We would fight over them and count how many each other had. Getting that 5p in the Christmas pudding, wrapped in foil.

Actual sales after Christmas and the excitement when we were old enough to have money to spend that the things you might want would be affordable.

sueelleker · 25/11/2022 18:51

SlatternIsMyMiddleName · 25/11/2022 11:49

@YetAnotherSpartacus i shouldn’t have laughed at your post - but I did.

So many lovely memories in this thread. It has brought a proper tear to my eye.

Oh and the Great Aunts. So many Great Aunts. (And they all liked a wee gin).

The Great Aunts remind me of A Child's Christmas In Wales by Dylan Thomas!

CorporateBull · 25/11/2022 19:36

We used to put some of my Grandma’s advocaat in the cats’ bowls every year. I seem to remember they were appreciative. They also liked cheese and pineapple.

Always4Brenner · 25/11/2022 19:41

sueelleker · 25/11/2022 18:51

The Great Aunts remind me of A Child's Christmas In Wales by Dylan Thomas!

Love that film.

Redwineandroses · 25/11/2022 19:49

Always4Brenner · 25/11/2022 15:53

I love the lemon Turkish delight must try to find it again online.

Harrods sell it, it's my treat if I ever venture to London!

Always4Brenner · 25/11/2022 19:55

Redwineandroses · 25/11/2022 19:49

Harrods sell it, it's my treat if I ever venture to London!

Right next year then no I’m not joking I’ll save all year for next December I don’t drink don’t smoke don’t do holidays so next year Christmas is blow out time.

Always4Brenner · 25/11/2022 19:58

Always4Brenner · 25/11/2022 19:55

Right next year then no I’m not joking I’ll save all year for next December I don’t drink don’t smoke don’t do holidays so next year Christmas is blow out time.

F and M do it online just checked. Marzipan fruits as well.

Redwineandroses · 25/11/2022 20:09

This thread is lovely. Christmas's gone by always seem more magical because it genuinely was the only time of year most people saw certain foods, had certain treats and got gifts.

Nowadays we are so spoilt Christmas has lost its magic.

sueelleker · 25/11/2022 20:13

Always4Brenner · 25/11/2022 19:41

Love that film.

Haven't seen the film-I've got the poem in a book of Advent poems and stories.