I am 57 and have hosted approximately 35 Christmas dinners and still get this wrong every time. Sorry if this is completely bleedin’ obvious to everyone else.
It looks great when you bring the turkey / goose / nut roast into the dining room with a big ‘ta-daaaaa’
But then the carving person has to fafff for ages carving it.
Meanwhile the veg is getting cold and the lattes are cooling down as he puts some on each plate and hands them out.
How do real people manage this?