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Skint Christmas for three children

371 replies

Wellyscooterwalk · 18/11/2021 11:05

Please help me with some DIY/ very very cheap ideas for Christmas.

We are in the ‘both working full time but barely scraping by’ bracket this year.
We can only find £100 to cover Christmas for our three children - stockings and gifts and other- and I’m trying to make the most of every penny. (£100 all together not each). I’m willing to spend every spare evening making/baking/searching for things.

I’ve already put together an advent calendar using Christmas themed books we own/craft activities we already had the materials for/‘activities’ such as a walk to see Christmas lights.

I will try to bulk out stockings with primark socks etc. and toiletries such as toothbrushes/bubble Bath which would normally fall within our groceries budget.

Any ideas of age appropriate gifts/stocking fillers that I can make please? Or things to buy cheaply which would be worth while?

Children are 8,6 and 2.

Thank you.

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KosherDill · 18/11/2021 23:54

Don't forget to give them an opportunity earlier in December to make something for you and Dad.

We glued pasta to empty cans and then painted the cans. Mom used hers to hold makeup brushes; I'm58, she's been gone for 15 years and I still have that can on my vanity table.

They will be more excited waiting for you to open your gifts than anything else. Cans, buttons, cheap photo frame, drawing paper, glue -- give them materials; you and your partner take turns supervising their creations. Homemade craft dough from salt & flour for little jewelry keepers, ornaments, etc.
they can give to adults. Lots of dough recipes online.

Any pine cones they can decorate?

They can draw a picture, put it in a cheap frame as your gift. Give them the opportunity to be generous and thoughtful.

Also cloves stuck in satsumas (poke with needle first to make spaces for cloves) and dusted in cinnamon are a good kid craft & make nice scented things for wardrobes. Plenty of how-to for these "pomander balls" online.

MinnieJackson · 19/11/2021 07:16

OP I have some things that id like to send to you aswell if you wanted to PM me your address.

I've got quite a lot from pound toy this year, some of the toys are a penny!

Are your children entitled to free school meals? If they are you could use some of the vouchers you get for Xmas towards the toiletries and sweets.

DockOTheBay · 19/11/2021 07:29

If you do decide to join Facebook, look for the page "preloved to reloved for postage" (I think that's the name). Lots of people on there would be happy to help you out

coodawoodashooda · 19/11/2021 07:34

Fudge, 1 tin condemned milk, 400g melted chocolate, 1 drop vanilla essence, 1 knob of butter. Melt and set. Cheap festive treat. Lasts ages.

RestingStitchFace · 19/11/2021 07:54

MoneySavingExpert is a good site for rounding up the best sales and 3 for 2s and money- off vouchers available.

Amazon Black Friday is today, I think.

For stockings, go for 50% sweets and buy them the type of sugary rubbish they might not be allowed normally. Tesco's do 40p packets of fizzy boot laces and do 3 for 2 on lots of their home brand sweets. Chocolate oranges are a cheap way of bulking out a stocking. For the rest of stocking materials - trawl charity shops for new little items - hair bobbles etc.

Vinted can be a good place for picking up cheap children's clothes. If you use the 'new with tags' filter you'll still effectively be buying new.

If you're on a tight budget, just focus on the kids. Make a pact with other adults in your life that you'll not do pressies this year.

Kikkomam · 19/11/2021 08:15

@coodawoodashooda

Fudge, 1 tin condemned milk, 400g melted chocolate, 1 drop vanilla essence, 1 knob of butter. Melt and set. Cheap festive treat. Lasts ages.
🤣 Condemned milk sounds a bit off
sashh · 19/11/2021 08:21

OP

There are a couple of other threads at the moment with similar things, but there is one about the best present ever received and lots of them are home made eg someone wanted a Wendy house, the parents couldn't afford it but her mum made a cover for the table that turned it into a Wendy house.

One I saw from MME and has been repeated for your 2 year old, get a box, get pack of balloons, blow up the balloons and put them in the box, it's something really exciting when you are 2.

You can get odd half rolls of wall paper, you can pin / staple / blue tack it to your wall so you have one wall that is blank, then let the kids draw on it, imagine having a whole wall to draw paint on?

Do they have any jobs (obviously not the 2 year old) a voucher to be let off doing the washing up or tidying a room that can be used later in the year.

A voucher for an afternoon / evening with just a parent to do an activity as a voucher, with three it can be difficult to get time one on one.

Have a look in the discounted aisle of shops, and go into places you would not normally go, I got a summer tent for a teenager for £2 a couple of years ago.

Clothes from charity shops or jumble sale (do they still exist?) in a big box (you can use some of that left over wallpaper to decorate) labeled 'Dressing up', another one with craft / art supplies - smaller box or a tool box.

Actually boxes can become boats, TV, theatre, evena drive through.

Does your budget include Xmas food? If it does get a big box to make as a counter or drive through and let the kids order off the menu of burgers and fish fingers you have put up, you can then serve burgers and fishfingers and it be the best Xmas meal ever, obviously tailor to your children's taste. Oh and wrap the burgers in Xmas paper if you have any left.

If you order from Amazon and ask for gift wrapping you get a bag with sparkles on it that can be filled with other things.

Wooden spoons are cheap and can be part of a home made baking kit or used with a theatre made out of a box and clothes made from the craft box.

Actually I had a childcare class make puppets and then make a film showing things like going into hospital, or going to school.

I'm not suggesting anything educational but if they make a puppet show it can be filmed and put on YouTube.

I think the key is to think like a child. Don't think about anything being second hand, not in a box, or cheap.

Think of the excitement.

Have you heard of Tió de Nadal? Basically it is a log with a face, it is covered with a blanket to keep warm and fed for several days (you could start Dec 1st).

On Xmas day, or Xmas eve the children have to leave the room to get or warm sticks in the kitchen.

They come back and beat Tio with sticks, sing to him and tell him to poo.
You then remove the blanket and the 'poo' is sweets.

Now to an adult that's just a log, but the combination of telling a log to poo and then finding it has pooed sweets or biscuits is funny.

evtheria · 19/11/2021 08:28

Fabulous thread, thank you for posting, OP. I hope you have a magical Christmas.

Depending on how crafty you are, you can print off/draw Christmas-themed silhouettes onto black card (or paint Cereal box card in a pinch) and tape or hot-glue to kebab skewers or even pencils. Then, using a lamp or torch and blank wall or suspended bedsheet, you can hold a shadow puppet theatre. The kids can make their own story to perform for you adults, or you can find an easy story that you all try to act out.

ShadowKitty · 19/11/2021 08:44

I always do the McDonalds Christmas Reindeer thing where it superimposes a reindeer in your living room on a little video - not really a gift but adds to the magic of Christmas morning for the kids.

www.reindeerready.co.uk

Available in '12 sleeps' if you wanted to try it out!

Redkatagain · 19/11/2021 08:50

Look at local events. I'm a councillor and where I live, the Christmas lights switch on is having a visit from the main man in red (have just put the red suit through the washing machine but that's another story)🤶

Every child who comes will be getting a small gift (Cadbury selection box), FREE (managed to get a generous local business to pay for them)

There is also a'Nutcracker trail' and a postbox topper trail. Both download from local website FREE.

Timetoeat · 19/11/2021 09:21

Hi, I've been reading this thread and you already have loads of excellent ideas.
In terms of Christmas treats, could you add one item ie, a tub of pringles , or sweets per week from now until Christmas?

OlafLovesAnna · 19/11/2021 09:25

Some amazing ideas here - my kids are older now at 9,14 and 16 but they still get toothpaste, shower gel etc in stockings and it's always needed.

They also talk fondly about the time they got some pop tarts and a pot noodle in their stocking as we don't usually buy them and it felt like such a treat for them. I went into Farm Foods yesterday and noticed they had pop tarts for a pound or so, so that might work for your older ones stockings.

MinnieJackson · 19/11/2021 09:44

Maybe you could Google jokes for your kids ages and write some out on pieces of paper or card and tie them with some string for the stockings. Or maybe a mini fact file about somethIng they're interested in and might not know, like strange animals, some funny world records. Maybe you could create your own beat the parents type quiz game?

MinnieJackson · 19/11/2021 09:51

Penne pasta and string for threading for your two year old maybe?
Those pop it toys are really popular at the minute and there's a 2 pack you could split on Amazon for £2 I think.

crochetmonkey74 · 19/11/2021 10:27

@actiongirl1978

One year I gave DD6 a filing box with drawers with pound shop stationery.

So top drawer was colouring pencils, middle drawer was paper and card

Bottom drawer was glue, glitter, scissors etc.

If you have a similar box or can find one in a charity shop, you can decorate with stickers etc. Then sharpen all your existing crayons and pencils and bunch together with ribbons.

It was so special for her but the outlay was only a few pounds.

One of my favourite repeated annual presents was my stationery box- it would be a box covered in wrapping paper and filled with paper, pens, paperclips, felts (looking back now I see that she may have 'liberated' some of these items through the year from her job as an office cleaner) I absolutely loved it- one year I remember it had photocopied colouring pages in- which I thought were amazing!
BlippityHiggut · 19/11/2021 10:43

With a Tesco clubcard, you can get a £2 selection box for £1 instead of £2. It is a fairly big present under the tree and always a hit/ something they get quite excited about, mine get one every year! Sweets are a good thing to go in the stocking too - mine are each getting some chocolate coins and a lollipop in theirs but a £1 chocolate santa would help bulk it up hugely..!

Look in poundland for a colouring book each, and maybe some new felt tips/gel pens/ pencils etc if they could do with them - the pens etc would probably fit in the stocking. ;)
All my children are getting some secondhand lego - almost complete but they won't mind and are quite used to trying to dig out a piece that will work from their lego. I actually got them at a car boot...!
Another one of mine is getting a secondhand dolls house I impulse bought in a charity shop. Quite often better bargains at a car boot sale than charity shop, around here anyway.

Avybay · 19/11/2021 10:48

£1.99 personalised book
Here's a link to the free personalised book, you just pay £1.99 postage, I've bought 1 before and think it would make a great gift for your 2 year old.

Avybay · 19/11/2021 10:51

If you don't have Amazon Prime you could sign up for 1 months free trial they always have good bargains. You can only sign up for one free trial every 12 months. If you do decide to do this just set a alarm on your phone to remind you to cancel, its easy to cancel.

Avybay · 19/11/2021 10:55

If your phone network is O2 you can get 3 months free Disney+ by texting DISNEY3 to 21500

Avybay · 19/11/2021 11:07

Smyths £10 and under
This page has some great gifts, smyths do free delivery with a £20 spend.

Notsandwiches · 19/11/2021 11:55

I know you didnt ask for help but would a Cambridge Brainbox Primary 2 electronics kit be any use to you? Happy to post.

MainRd · 19/11/2021 13:20

Forgotten the stationary box@crochetmonkey74 - I did that too for my kids.
I led training events in hotels and attended conferences so would sweep up the leftover writing pads, pencils and promotional business stuff pens, highlighters, diaries etc! Filled out with felt tip pens it was great.

Zebracat · 19/11/2021 15:09

With the 2 older children, and maybe even the lo, I would suggest helping them create presents for everyone in the family. They can be made, truffles are good, re used, or pledged, or each child could be let loose in the Pound shop with £4.00. The presents need to be kept secret and wrapped. My now grown children remember the presents they gave more than theones they received and it sets them up for life.I would also suggest that you help one and their father helps the other.
Have a lovely Christmas

KosherDill · 19/11/2021 15:37

@Zebracat

With the 2 older children, and maybe even the lo, I would suggest helping them create presents for everyone in the family. They can be made, truffles are good, re used, or pledged, or each child could be let loose in the Pound shop with £4.00. The presents need to be kept secret and wrapped. My now grown children remember the presents they gave more than theones they received and it sets them up for life.I would also suggest that you help one and their father helps the other. Have a lovely Christmas

Agree. They will be far more excited to give.

SheWoreYellow · 19/11/2021 15:42

For on the day we’ve had success with some Christmas games - pin the nose on the reindeer, Christmas bingo. Have a look online and then make your own.
We also make reindeer food.