Actually, I have nothing to contribute but that's the point. I'm hoping for some words from the wise as how to get through a Christmas visit to IL's without it all ending up in tears. It will probably be driving-drizzle for the whole stay. We can only take a few toys. My DSs are not the kind to sit down with a colouring book. No other children to play with.... I can think of many, many disadvantages - please help me with some practical suggestions to banish these thoughts of doom! (This is about being cooped up away from home with 1.5 yo and 3.5 yo - not an IL baiting thing).