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What are your Christmas traditions?

42 replies

willow1995 · 19/08/2021 16:38

hello everyone,
what are your Christmas traditions? and what was the best present that you received when you were younger that you still remember?
I love hearing everyone's Christmas past experiences
I'm very old school with Christmas and would like new ideas; I love watching 70s/80s Christmas programmes etc and I love the older type Christmas decorations 😀

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FilthyforFirth · 20/08/2021 09:55

The year we got married we started a tradition of going for a festive afternoon tea with both our parents. I love it! They dont often mix so its nice for my DS to spend time with both his grandparents.

I love finding a new place every year!

BiddyPop · 20/08/2021 10:39

My best present was a clock radio my DGF got me when I was 12 - it finally died on me about 3 years ago and I cannot find another than has a dimmer function that works so the bedroom is not lit up like a Christmas tree during the night.

I started a personal tradition when I was 16 and babysitting DSiblings (DPs had a number of work functions they had to attend so there were a lot of nights wrangling 5 younger ones). This particular one was relatively peaceful for a change and they were all watching the same programme on tv in the other room so I enjoyed a rare half hour of peace in the sitting room with the tree lit up. I made myself a drink and turned off all lights in the room except the tree, and lay on my back looking up through it contemplating life. Having a quiet time, with a beverage (not always alcoholic), having some peaceful time looking up through the tree after dark and with no other lights on, and reflecting, has been a personal tradition almost every year since (more than 30 years now).

BiddyPop · 20/08/2021 10:40

We also still light the Christmas candle on Christmas Eve, to show that even if there was no room at the Inn in Bethlehem, we have room for ant weary travellers in need, and have a family prayer and reflection on the year just finishing, and remembering those no longer with us.

Ragwort · 20/08/2021 10:50

I actually prefer to find new things to do Grin maybe I've lived through too many Christmases but it can all get a bit samey. I love the church celebrations but even then I might look out for a different service in a different town, or even a different faith just to have an 'alternative' experience.

We've always done lots of different things over Christmas - hosted/visited family/gone on holiday/volunteered and each is special in its own way.

Now I work in retail and am always the first to volunteer for the Christmas Eve and Boxing Day shifts Grin.

ButterfliesandMoths · 20/08/2021 11:01

I was 9 so 42 years ago but I got a pram for Christmas. We didn't have a lot of money so my mum bought a secondhand one from a neighbour. It was the best present ever, I can still remember the excitement I felt when I look back.

beachcitygirl · 20/08/2021 11:12

I loved my lundby dolls house. The most special gift ever. I was 7!

I adore xmas & start treats on 1 DECEMBER with special home made advent calendar. Something Christmassy happens every day.
Xmas movie
Gingerbread house making
Hot chocolate bar set up with marshmallows, special flavours of hot chocolate, sweets & scooshy cream on a trolley with fairy lights
Christmas movie nights
Driving around to look at decorated houses after midnight in pyjamas
Panto
Carnival
Everything done by 23rd so that Xmas eve is special & relaxing
Christmas markets

This year we'll be going to a Christmas market abroad

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 20/08/2021 11:38

Making first mince pies on Dec 1st, with carols playing. And probably a glass or 2 of mulled wine. Mince pies are not allowed in this house before then, largely because we are 🐷🐷.

No Christmas music until then either - not in the house, anyway, though I like to hear it anywhere else.

Making Christmas puds late Nov-ish - mine are much nicer than shop ones.

Late breakfast on the day, smoked salmon and cream cheese bagels.

Gallons of Buck’s Fizz while opening presents later.

Dinner not until at least 5 pm.

Always a real tree, not up until at least mid Dec, though have done it a few days earlier when guests were coming.

For a couple of years now, shortly before 1st Dec, unearthing from the loft the huge knitted Advent calendar I made for Gdcs - it hangs on the back of their kitchen door but we store it, since have more room.

Always stockings, albeit maybe very little ones, for anyone sleeping in the house on Chr. Eve, regardless of age.

Thecomfortador · 20/08/2021 11:52

Probably my best present was a cuddly pink hippo with little baby hippos in her tummy, from father Christmas. I remember a few others but I think the ones that were most magical were the regular bits and pieces in stockings - matey bubble bath, toothbrush, novelty sponge, satsuma, one of the big old 10ps in the bottom and a chocolate orange. Oh and tube of jelly tots. As a result I'm a bit obsessed with stockings and tend to leave the big wrapped presents to dp to sort out. DP has some stretchy Christmas socks that the kids choose from each year, just have to make sure we have the full pair to hand to swap empty stocking on the bed with filled one.

The stockings are then opened on our bed at whatever hour the kids arise.

We have a walk round the houses when it's dark on Christmas Eve, I've seen some lamp-decorating kits which I might get then they can take their lamps out to look at the lights on the estate. Past couple of years we let ds1 choose what to put out for Santa - mince pie, pork pie, bread sticks, chocolate biscuits and some chocolate I think it was last year. No wonder the old guy isn't getting any slimmer.

MauveMagnolia · 20/08/2021 11:53

When children were younger
Christmas Eve -go to Fram and get the tree
Fish and chips and decorate it
Off to the nativity service- all dressed as angels or shepherds
People back to ours for mulled wine and nibbles (and a local tradition- people bring their vintage vehicles to the pub next door)
Family stay for supper

Cook roast potatoes and Yorkshire puds

Bedtime for children
Midnight mass and then pub lock in for guests
DH and I still wrapping presents frantically

Everyone gets a full stocking in their rooms- adults as well
Christmas breakfast of champagne, fresh bread rolls and salmon/ham
Turkey into aga

Everyone opens stockings

MauveMagnolia · 20/08/2021 11:55

@Henlie

I’d never heard of a ‘Christmas Eve Box’ until a few years ago. Thought it was just something invented by the same brigade who brought us ‘elf on a shelf’ 😅😏
It was.
Shehasadiamondinthesky · 20/08/2021 11:58

I gave up doing Christmas 10 years ago much to everyone's disgust. My new tradition is to eat a co_op rice pudding and lie on the sofa watching TV all day.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 20/08/2021 12:59

One thing they did in dd’s immediate area last (Covid-ridden) year, was a lot of houses in her road and nearby ones, putting some sort of lit-up Christmas display in a front window, IIRC one house for each day of Advent, so neighbours could walk round with dcs after dark and admire them.

It was lovely - I hope they’ll repeat it this year.

Charliebradbury · 20/08/2021 13:16

My favourite present I ever got was a barbie house. It was made of card and plastic but honestly it was the best thing ever. I can still remember how excited I was opening it up and it was 24 years ago.
Our Christmas traditions are a box on 1st December which has christmas books, Pjs, crafts, jumpers and advent calenders in it. We put the tree up the 1st weekend of Dec. Driving round to look at Christmas lights.
We watch muppet Christmas Carol on Christmas eve before reading the night before Christmas and going to bed.
I love Christmas. I still find it all so magical.

memberofthewedding · 20/08/2021 13:18

My traditions are that I dont send cards or buy presents or do anything special. Havnt done since the 1970s. Saves a lot of money and needless hassle.

mam0918 · 20/08/2021 14:30

@Miltie6267

A present I vividly remember receiving was the Little Mermaid video. I didn't know it was out yet, my gran gave it to me. I just remember that feeling inside as I opened it and saw the cover. Absolute joy. Watched that film a million times!

One year we didn't get much from our parents as they bought a family computer instead. Good old Packard Bell, Windows 95. So exciting. Had Ecco the Dolphin and that kind of thing and 'The Internet'.

Christmas has always felt so special. On Christmas Eve I still have trouble falling asleep. I'm not even that excited about my own presents. But it's like I can feel this energy, thinking of all the children that are eagerly anticipating that next morning, thinking about Santa.

In the morning I'd always wake my parents, then my brother, then I'd go through to the livingroom myself. Funny, my parents never saw my first reactions as they didn't get up for a bit. Whereas I make sure we are up to see DS reaction to his stocking, it's wonderful. My Dad would come down the hallway about 5/10mins after I got up with the video camera on and I'd do a funny reaction (no dad! While trying to hide). He continued to do this right into my late teens (Santa came til I was 20!). My brother recently put all our video camera footage onto a USB stick so watching childhood Christmases has been wonderful.

I remember the little tin bowls that only came out on Christmas day for the prawn starter. The way my mum lays the table with 2 crackers each (she still lays it all the same now if she's hosting). The smell of coffee from the perculator which only came out on special occasions. The smell of a freshly lit fireplace. Me sorting everyone's presents into piles under the tree. Writing and re-writing my list so it was perfect for Santa and drawing him a picture and being elated at the thought of 'him' seeing it. Having friends over when the tree was up and nestling underneath it pretending to be squirrels. The biscuit box that kept the breakable, good decorations in it. The dogs on Christmas morning getting their presents too. Having to be totally silent during The Queen's Speech. My mum quickly writing down what I got and from which person as I tore open my presents. Going on a walk on Christmas day and saying Merry Christmas to everyone we saw. The year I bought a set of secret presents for my Mum, Dad and bro and scurried through on Christmas morning to lay them out before anyone saw. My DS (8) has told me that he wants my Mum to take him to town to buy secret presents for me and DH this year :)

Our own traditions are: DS bringing his mini bedroom stocking into our bed to open, then us all getting up, I go in livingroom first and start filming, the DS, DH and DDog come in, DS opens main stocking and helps DDog open hers (only child, DDog is treated like a sister with a proper stocking!), DS opens presents from us and DDog, me and DH open our gifts then we get breakfast. Family Christmas walk and say merry Christmas to everyone we see, then get prepped for hosting or for our dish we are taking to my folks if they are hosting. Family arrive and DS plays with his cousins and see what presents they got. Christmas lunch at 1pm, presents then chill! Throughout December we go on multiple walks through the village to look at the lights.

And not a Christmas one, but at midnight on new year's eve we would throw open the door and listen for the boats sounding their horns in the bay a few miles away. I live in the village I grew up in now (moved back 3 years ago) and I love doing this as I know my dad will be doing it too. We spend part of new year's eve with my folks but head home around 8pm.

Ahh thanks for this thread. That was a trip down memory lane. Christmas is my absolute favourite time of year. Can you tell?

My DH thinks Im nuts but I always race the kids down so I can see their reactions.

My oldest is the most dull faced stoic person you'll ever meet though so the reactions from him are rearly great, My toddler however is amazed and excited by everything so xmas will blow his mind.

My baby will likely not give a shit either way but im excited for her lol.

mam0918 · 20/08/2021 14:39

MauveMagnolia - so the ones we had in the 80s/90s and our parents had in the 50s/60s are what then?

what would anyone gain by lying to you about having had these traditions 30/40/50 years ago?

I love that people are totally convinced that because they didnt do something it couldnt have existed. I didnt do loads of things people talk about on here but I have zero reason to doubt it exists as tradition without my knowledge or involvement. Things dont only come into existance when I first start hearing about them lol.

The 'xmas eve' tradition apparently started in Iceland in the 40s, no idea how it got to the UK but by the late 50s but it was definately a thing here aswell.

AliceMcK · 20/08/2021 14:40

When I was 10 I got my own tv in my room, it was black and white and I loved it! My brothers always seemed to get what they wanted and I was forced to have things my mother wanted, I have a doll phobia but she would always force dolls on me 😞 so I was so excited to actually get something I wanted.

We never did Santa visits (Father Christmas in our house) but my DF would sign us up for the children’s Christmas parties at the local working men’s clubs. Back then employers also did Christmas parties. My DF worked in a cash and carry when I was little, I remember they had huge Christmas parties, or at least it felt that way.

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