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If restrictions persist we'll still make December lovely, ideas thread

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Walkley18 · 12/09/2020 20:13

I'm trying to think of ideas for Dec / run up to Christmas in case restrictions persist/ get worse. So thinking if no Christmas markets / shopping / usual days out / or larger family events, what else is there? I have older teen kids but still want it to be special. Anyone in? Younger kids ideas also welcome. So far I have:

Find out great streets/ houses with Christmas lights, make a night of it with hot choc etc

Make Christmas tree decorations, chocolate and non edible

Find a lovely pub after country walk, with outdoor heaters to enjoy the countryside / sprinkling of snow (reaching I know!)

December boxes including list of 12 favourite movies we watch in order, so number 1 family favourite on Christmas Eve

If possible discover houses with unusual decorations further afield and do a travel scavenger hunt altogether.

Please join and give your lovely ideas!

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Walkley18 · 17/09/2020 07:16

@kavalkada You have introduced some awesome traditions! I love the story time on blankets with fairy lights. Your kids will always think their Christmases are special when they realise not everyone does these.

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Drinkingallthewine · 17/09/2020 15:21

kavalkada, I think I'll steal that idea, it's so lovely.

I can offer one of my own - I bake the gingerbread house parts but DS and DH do the assembly and decorating while I'm doing prep in the kitchen.

Another thing we do is put out the inflatable bed in the middle of the living room with every pillow in the house and duvet and snuggle down for an afternoon Christmas movie with just the fire and the tree to light the room.

kavalkada · 18/09/2020 07:21

@Drinkingallthewine

kavalkada, I think I'll steal that idea, it's so lovely.

I can offer one of my own - I bake the gingerbread house parts but DS and DH do the assembly and decorating while I'm doing prep in the kitchen.

Another thing we do is put out the inflatable bed in the middle of the living room with every pillow in the house and duvet and snuggle down for an afternoon Christmas movie with just the fire and the tree to light the room.

I always wanted to bake gingerbread house, but is it as hard as it seems to be?
Walkley18 · 18/09/2020 19:07

I have just bought the Horrible Histories board game, which may be something we'll all find fun, including DD who usually hates board games.

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RepeatSwan · 19/09/2020 06:48

@kavalkada Thank you. One good thing is when you're on a budget you have to be creative.

Yes I agree with this, our family Christmas actually improved in many ways when our available budget went down because we put a lot more of our own work in. Obviously too little money is horrible (been there!), but our lower budget made us change things for the better around Christmas.

RockingMyFiftiesNot · 19/09/2020 09:45

I have young adult children. Whether they will both be able to spend Christmas with us remains to be seen. I am thinking of making them advent boxes with one Christmassy thing to open each day - mainly food stuffs so could be a bag of seasonal crisps (e.g pigs in blanket flavour) or a box of stuffing. Maybe Christmas socks so they get to wear them longer than if in Christmas stockings.

Drinkingallthewine · 22/09/2020 16:23

@kavalkada, no, it's very easy. I've the gingerbread dough in the freezer already!
This is the recipe I use donalskehan.com/recipes/gingerbread-house/ and that website has the templates as well for the house.

When the time comes I just defrost it overnight, and roll it out, and it's 10 mins or so in the oven.

DisgruntledGuineaPig · 22/09/2020 16:40

Horrible Histories board game sounds fabulous! My two would love that.

ArthurChristmas2 · 22/09/2020 17:54

@veryvery you can’t do that under current rules so I certainly don’t think a rota will be needed! (It’s a maximum of 6 exclusive, i.e it needs to be the same six, all the time).

I am sensing we are going to need lots of family activities in the home. I’m planning to go more overboard on Halloween than we would normally and then hopefully get the energy to ramp up for Christmas!

TweeBree · 22/09/2020 22:17

Saw this on various Instagrams last year: thegivingmanger.co.uk/

In the days leading up to Christmas, family members can place a piece of straw in the manger each time they perform a kind deed or act of service. Filling the manger will become a fun, interactive project for your family, prompting even young children to look for ways to love and serve others.

As your family works together to fill the manger with straw, your hearts and home will fill with the joy and contentment that comes not from wish lists and getting, but from giving and loving others. On Christmas Day, your family can place the Baby Jesus in the manger--now full of the straw that represents the acts of love and service done in honor of Jesus' birth.

You could probably make your own for much less.

Chickentraybake · 24/09/2020 20:20

I’ve got a teen and we’re in a local lockdown area that I don’t think will be lifted anytime soon, so thinking of how to keep him entertained with just his mum and dad for company!
One thing I’m going to do is arrange a selfie challenge, that is having a list of local landmarks and seeing who can get as many landmarks or items (such as biggest Xmas tree or a Santa climbing up a ladder) against other families. We’ve done a few with my sister and her family and they’re great fun.
Definite gingerbread house and having movie night. May get DS onboard buying stocking presents for DH this year also.

anorangeaday · 24/09/2020 20:39

I love this thread

Walkley18 · 24/09/2020 21:06

@Chickentraybake I love that idea! Also I thought I'd do DH a December box too, not done them at all before. Maybe I'll do myself one while I'm at it! Just bought craft items to make presents and decorations, moulds to make edible tree dex and large marshmallows to roast or whatever over bbq on a frosty night. Buying now so don't have to do too much later if things get worse.

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FizzyPink · 24/09/2020 21:08

For anyone in London, we’ve booked Christmas at Kew and ice skating at Tower of London. Fingers crossed they both go ahead

FizzyPink · 24/09/2020 21:17

@Parker231 great suggestion! We did the reverse advent calendar for Islington food bank at work last year. I collected donations from everyone and did a huge Tesco order. I was amazed at how generous people were with their donations.

Perhaps budgets for Christmas parties/client lunches that won’t be happening this year could be put towards good causes

Chickentraybake · 24/09/2020 21:19

We’re supposed to be heading to London just before Christmas @Turnedouttoes so I think I’ll look into ice skating at the Tower, thanks for tip.
I think I’ll get a big Christmas activity box I’m going to start putting things in sooner rather than later like you say @Walkley18 in case we can’t closer to the time!

Parker231 · 24/09/2020 21:23

@Turnedouttoes - I’m hoping with everything that has happened this year people will be less materialistic this Christmas and donate to foodbanks instead. The foodbank I volunteer at is getting swamped by the extra need for food parcels.

Perhaps those who post about spending 000’s on their DC’s Christmas presents, could reduce the value of the presents and donate to a foodbank instead?

Butterymuffin · 24/09/2020 21:27

Go carol singing with the family? I guess choirs and big groups won't be allowed but you could go round the neighbourhood if you live together anyway as a group, and stand well back from people's doors to sing. Either collect for charity or say you're just doing it for fun. Doesn't have to be all church carols, you could do Mariah Carey or Slade!

Putmynewshoeson · 24/09/2020 21:52

I love this thread so much. It makes such a nice change to read something positive and with things to look forward to

DS will be one this Christmas so I've been trying to think of things he might be interested in

elQuintoConyo · 24/09/2020 22:22

I'll be participating in a Zoom Christmas Carol party, own mince pies and beverage of choice, choosing carols before hand so we don't all choose the same one!

I want to make a fireplace out of wallpaper-covered boxes this year (google them , they're fab!) with our 9yo. I made him a felt fire and logs a couple of years ago when he got obsessed with camping, so I can put that in the fireplace, and also decorate the top with twinkly lights. The fire is about a foot high.

During lockdown i got together with a friend, her sister and sister's daughter and bff to sew via Zoom. We are all using different media (corochet, knitting, quilting, felt...) and we just chat about what we're making, who it's for, any problems/advice about it. Plus random conversations about our youthful drinking exploits (we're all 45+), feminism, Netflix, books we're reading, politics, mental health - eveerything. ANYWAY! we have decided to make one thing for each person for their Christmas tree, so 4 things each. It can be personal, topical, referencing something tha's popped up during the last 6 month' of us zooming. We're also going to create a nativity scene out of whatever we like for a laugh. I might steal from DS' massive store of looroll tubes. One of us is a painter and may paint a scene. My friend is in a far away country which is still in lockdown and doesn' t have the shops we do, so might make her nativity out of food one day, and just take a photo of it!

Basically, anything creative that we can share on zoom. I have to say that i'm in spain, three in UK and my friend is in Colombia, so zoom is our best bet!

As December approaches, I always tell my son to look out for his first house decoration (not shop, they're out already!) and he'll shout excitedly that he's seen FC climbing a rope ladder dangling off someone's balcony in mid-Novermber, or whenever.

If there's a particularly sunny day during the hoidays, we'll go down to the beach with a flask of hot chocolate and some beach toys (football, rugby ball, kite, frisby etc) and blow off steam with the dog. Often we'll invite another famiy or two. We played musical chairs last year with small items (eg a sock, small beach towel, scarf) to jump on when the music stopped, all safe soft landings!

I might make a treasure map or scavenger hunt for our town once the decorations are up and kids are bored over the holidays. They have 20 days this year and being cooped up at home will be dreadful for all of us, so a socially distanced scavenger hunt might be a nice way to run around the (pedestrianesed) bit of town looking for the angel in the antique shop window, count the Christmas lights in the cathedral square, what's the soup of the day at X place.

There'll be Christmas films and blanket snuggles too, but that's no different from other years Grin

Sunshine1235 · 24/09/2020 22:25

I think everyone needs to really commit to ott Christmas lights and driveway decorations this year so we can go for local light spotting walks in our neighbourhoods

Rae36 · 25/09/2020 11:11

Sending love to Tunnocks

On 1st December when the kids are at school I'm going to change all the beds and get their Christmas duvets on for them coming home.

I have this idea that every day I will put out another christmas decoration while they are at school so the house slowly gets more christmassy and they have something new to find every day. I suspect I will run out of steam pretty quickly though.

I've bought quite a few christmas craft things too, even the teenage boys will get roped in to making something. Paper chains were popular last year, they had a competition to see who could make the longest one so that kept them going for absolutely ages.

We've never had flashy outdoor decorations but this year we are going to choose something together. The kids want a massive inflatable santa but dh is not keen. He is hoping for something a bit more tasteful.

I am half thinking about hiring a hot tub for the garden for over christmas, we did that earlier this year for a lockdown birthday and the kids loved it, but I don't know how expensive it would be to keep it heated when it's really cold outside. Maybe not a very sensible idea.

Our local country park does a light festival which was lovely last year, hopefully that will still go ahead and we'll book tickets.

A trip to the cat cafe which is still open, I was surprised.

We also have the stupid elf, last year the older boys took turns to move the elf around for their youngest brother but this year I think I might try and put more (some) effort in and come up with good ideas that they can all enjoy. I hate the elf but I have a feeling we're going to need all the Christmas cheer we can muster this year.

I'm mainly trying to think of how we can have our parents in the garden (assuming we're still banned from having people in our house in Scotland) and it be warm and cosy for them. We've got a fire bowl and a gazebo so we can put that up, put lots of fairy lights up, cosy blankets, just try and make it as nice as it can be. That could be the Christmas Eve project maybe, setting up a santa's grotto in the garden.

Walkley18 · 25/09/2020 15:15

Some amazing ideas! I wonder if we should start posting pix if we see any outside Christmas decorations in shops, which we think others on here would like? I'm totally for us going for it outside this year. I never have and need inspiration of things that won't be stolen or blown away in the wind, so if anyone sees anything please keep us all informed. I think I'd like a big Nutcracker standing by my front trees, just to start with!

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BestofLuck · 25/09/2020 19:08

Thank you for this thread. So many great ideas, big and small. Will post as I think of any.

forgetthehousework · 25/09/2020 19:29

This is such a nice thread.
We don't have children but will watch our favourite Christmas movies, listen to carols, put up decorations.

I think this year I'll also do Christmas for birds, with garlands of peanuts, fatball decorations etc.