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Tips to ensure 5 year old sleeps on Christmas Eve......???

33 replies

peanutfoldover · 17/12/2019 07:21

My DD’s birthday was a few months ago and the night before she was SO excited she only got about 5 hours sleep. I’ve been dreading Christmas Eve ever since!

Our only plan for Christmas Eve is going to church for the nativity and christingle, but I can’t help thinking that isn’t enough to wear her out.

Tried and tested plans would be great!

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trilbydoll · 17/12/2019 07:27

We went for a walk last year and got it a bit wrong, ended up doing several miles rather than the short walk we had planned. Kids were exhausted!

FC can't come if you're awake...

Finfintytint · 17/12/2019 07:28

Swimming always used to tire my DS.
Or walk around the neighbours’ houses looking at the lights and decorations .

MrsPresley · 17/12/2019 07:28

Other than drugs? Nope, just go with it 😂😂 make e the most of it and enjoy it while you can, it doesn't last forever 😀

CupCupGoose · 17/12/2019 07:29

Can you take her to the park or for a walk in the morning? You could also try setting an early alarm Christmas eve so she's awake longer than normal. I always tell my kids that santa will only come when they are asleep so they need to get to bed early incase he comes. No one wants to risk missing santa!

peanutfoldover · 17/12/2019 07:32

Oh I wish my DD was that compliant. She’s the kind of kid who would risk stayujng awake to catch him, even if it meant no presents!

Swimming is a good idea actually, that would tire her out! Then a bath and then a long walk. Maybe some lifting????

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daffyducked · 17/12/2019 07:33

4.20 my daughter (8) woke last Christmas morning and refused to go back to bed - DH wouldn't let me get cross at her.

Piriton and a very long walk this year.

Absoluteunit · 17/12/2019 07:35

Drugs 😉😂

peanutfoldover · 17/12/2019 07:36

I keep switching from thinking ULTRA late night (10pm) to ensure no earlier waking than 5am. Or 6pm bedtime to maximise sleep between wakings?????

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Bouledeneige · 17/12/2019 07:36

I'd go to the Christingle service, walk there if possible and let her watch a Christmas movie and stay up a bit later than usual. To be honest she probably won't get much sleep....

Put the stockings in the living room not her bedroom. One year my DD was so excited she woke up every time I went in there to fill it so I had to set my alarm for 3am. Never again.

Bobbybobbins · 17/12/2019 07:38

We went swimming and ice skating last year and they slept like angels.

MIdgebabe · 17/12/2019 07:39

Dd would sleep worse if kept up late and became over tired

Agree with others, lots of physical exercise the day before

Also, she is old enough to understand a clock, make sure she uses it!

drspouse · 17/12/2019 07:40

Swimming does the trick for ours.
We also have a glow stick bath which helps persuade them to get ready for bed.

KittenVsXmastree · 17/12/2019 07:42

Accept you wont get a full night's sleep from them!
I've already looked up the Xmas eve swimming pool opening times, and there are carols on the high st to go to as well.
Have a duplicate stocking so you can pack one at you leisure, and then just need to switch them.
Set a time, before which you arent to be disturbed - but make it realistic. If they normally get up at 7 on a school day, 6.30 is more realistic than 8 to wake the rest of the house up.
Put something easily usable, and easy to repack sticking out of the top of the stocking.

But most of all, accept you are likely to have an early start rather than a lie in!

BikeRunSki · 17/12/2019 07:59

Walk, swim until the child is practically begging to go home. Stay up a bit late to watch a film. When my dc were small this usually led to them falling asleep on the sofa.

livingthegoodlife · 17/12/2019 09:09

I don't think staying up late is a good idea, it usually means over tired children for me.

I think fresh air is the key. Nice long bath time with lots of toys. Special Christmas story then straight to sleep because Father Christmas only comes to sleepiy children.

We'll be driving home late from Paris on Christmas Eve so I think mine will fall asleep in the car. Fingers crossed they actually go to bed properly when we get home!

superfandango · 17/12/2019 09:13

Staying up late is a terrible idea, they’ll just be overtired the next day, which is enough for them to cope with as it is. Just do their normal time for bed with a shitload of physical activity during the day and a nice long warm bath before bed. “Santa doesn’t come until everyone’s asleep” works for our two.

Cuppaand2biscuits · 17/12/2019 09:25

My kids having one late night usually results in them waking earlier than usual. A few late nights leads to them sleeping later. If I were you I'd stick to a normal bedtime so she gets the most sleep she can, as chances are she'll wake early anyway.

Fueledwithfairydustandgin · 17/12/2019 11:55

I’ve heard of people doing soft play on Christmas Eve to tire the children out or maybe a nice long bike ride? You could decorate the bikes with tinsel? In our house we will probably be up before DS5 because we have never grown up and have been known to wake up at 4am on Christmas morning Xmas Blush

Barbararara · 17/12/2019 12:46

Wear them out with fresh air and exercise, but don’t mess with waking/bed times. That only makes them over tired and awake for longer.

If you bring them for a walk they have to walk 6 times more than you or you’ll be the one dropping off! Bring a ball and have them do lots of running after it, or do a kind of scavenger hunt, sending them here and there to find random items.

Ice skating can be very quiet on Christmas Eve (I probably shouldn’t say this because I’m pretty sure people stay away because they expect it to be manic)

Don’t ramp up the excitement on Christmas Eve. As you get towards bedtime watch your tone of voice, and try keep it calm and a little monotone. Keep close as you can to a normal bed routine. New pjs, fizzy, stinky bath bombs, animated bedtime stories, sugary hot chocolate and Christmas movies can all very stimulating particularly if they only happen once a year!

Lordfrontpaw · 17/12/2019 13:10

Also - don't forget the stocking that she can open and play with before mum and dad get up.

If there are some little toys in there that she will happily play with then you might get an extra hour of sleep (or maybe not - 'LOOOOOKKKKKK MUUUUUUUUMMMMMMM - SANTA BROUGHT ME PRESENTS!!!!!'.)

BiddyPop · 17/12/2019 13:29

Definitely out in the fresh air during the day, preferably afternoon.

In our house, DD also makes cookies in the afternoon - from scratch if we have the time and energy, or just "slice and bake" from a half batch that I have frozen earlier in December just in case...we are all in the kitchen peeling veg and making stuffing etc together.

We have a nice dinner that DD enjoys, and that marks the start of the slow down in our house.

We clear dishes away (and from mid-afternoon on 24th, everyone has a role in meals, young DC can carry things between rooms etc and help stack the dishwasher).

Then we go into the sitting room, with the lights lowered to just side lamps, and we light the Christmas Candle (to show that there is room for any weary travellers in our Inn). We have a few minutes talking about the year just finishing, remembering the good and bad about it and family members no longer with us to celebrate, (always finishing on some good things).

We pull out the cardboard box that is our hamper. It has always been known that I fill it, not any Elves etc. We all get new PJs, and everyone gets something nice for the bath/shower, and the makings of hot chocolate. I also put in DD's stocking, her plastic plate and glass with Santa on it from toddler-hood, the family edition of "Twas the Night Before Christmas" and her snowman covered hot water bottle.

She puts out her stocking, and the cookies (from the afternoon) and milk for Santa.

She goes up and enjoys a Lush festive bath-bomb enlivened warm bath. Where she can relax as long as she likes, and the bath toys are available if wanted. She gets into her fresh cosy new PJs and comes back downstairs for her hot choc snuggled up on the couch.

Then we both go upstairs with her snuggly HWB, where I read the book, and maybe another story or 2 when she was younger (nowadays, I turn on the audiobooks or Radio 4 comedies on her ipad - but she still wants TTNBC to start with!). Bedtime stories have always been a part of bedtime in our house. I keep the lights low in her room too - not the bright main light, just the bedside lamp. And keep the chat low too - lower voices, general chat, not getting worked up about it all, and not giving out but more gently coaxing along. The tv is on during the day, but switched off when we start dinner (and doesn't go back on until she's in bed) - we'll have the radio on part of the time in the background, but not very loudly. So it is all very calm and measured.

DD is a demon for sleeping, always has been (she has been on melatonin for quite a few years) but Christmas Eve is normally one of the few nights where we can get her to bed relatively calmly and know she will sleep.

superfandango · 17/12/2019 14:10

I’ve heard of people doing soft play on Christmas Eve to tire the children out Oh good God I can't think of anything worse than soft play on Christmas Eve! The other kids! The germs! It's like inviting Norovirus round for Christmas dinner.

kitk · 17/12/2019 14:14

Physical exhaustion! Bet her 50p she can't run up and down stairs twenty times in 10 minutes, go for a walk and ask her to run ahead to a tree in distance and then back to you etc. Last time I had DD at Xmas and we did this she was asleep by 10 which I didn't think was too bad

Fcukthisshit · 17/12/2019 16:16

A good walk and warm pyjamas before bed.

Bigtelevision · 17/12/2019 22:18

Just don’t leave your present wrapping until Xmas eve. We did that one year, kids didn’t get to sleep until midnight. We could only start wrapping then, took us hours. And then they were up far too early on Christmas Day!

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