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Boyfriend invited friend and son with asking me

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Monster1976 · 09/12/2019 10:43

Hi everyone I just wanted some friendly Advice .. so my boyfriend invited his friend and his son over on Christmas Day but. Forgot to tell me he had . First thing I knew anything about it was when his friend said what do you need to Bring on Christmas day.. I was like what!!!?? I was so Shocked 😳 I didn’t know what to say .. than I just When into pure anger with my boyfriend for not telling me.. as I know it will be me doing everything and with my 2 kids in small house with not much room it’s going to be nightmare .. I am not selfish person and would not want anyone to be alone at Christmas but it’s just the fact that they both said we can do this we can do that and I say that not me and boyfriend that my boyfriend and his friend.. I just feel invisible and like my opinion don’t matter .. my boyfriend said I am being rude and selfish.. but I am not he can’t see he upset by what he has done .. am I being selfish and am in the wrong for being upset that he didn’t tell me .. o just don’t know just need to gently off my chest thank you for read sorry spelling mistakes I am Dyslexic and if it doesn’t mean sense ❤️❤️

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Judgybitch · 09/12/2019 10:46

Can't believe he said you were rude for complaining! You can just say No! Alternatively say yes but he has to do all the cooking/ prep for HIS Christmas gathering.

OrangeZog · 09/12/2019 10:46

I think your boyfriend was really inconsiderate to have invited someone without checking with you first of all. He’s at fault here, not you and I think it’s completely understandable that you are upset.

Tigerty · 09/12/2019 10:48

Does he expect you to go most/all the prep and cooking then the clearing up while he and his friend relax or go out?

Tigerty · 09/12/2019 10:49

Actually just in him not discussing this with you is reason enough to be angry with him.

Monster1976 · 09/12/2019 11:42

Yes i did think about saying that 😀thank you x

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