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Fantasy Xmas

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squirmyworm3 · 30/11/2019 15:09

OK I've just watched an ad on Youtube where an impeccably dressed woman floated around her immaculate architecturally complex living space talking about how she needed 3 £100 a pop candles for the festive season 'one for that end of November feeling to get you in the spirit', one 'for parties and when you need that hit of festive spice' and one 'for those quiet times sitting on the sofa with a book'. I'm currently grappling with being completely disorganised in a muddy boot strewn house where the dog has decided to make a nest on the duvet. Shall we indulge ourselves in fantasy Xmas? I'll start.

Wearing a pale cashmere ensemble and perfect leather boots, I am sitting at an antique escritoire writing Xmas cards with a gold Mont Blanc pen. The ink is an ironic shade of teal. My children have asked for wholesome wooden toys, so in a few moments I will climb into my freshly valeted Land Rover Evoque to purchase them from a gloriously authentic artisan who has opened a store in the nearby small town. This town has a HUGE free carpark hidden discreetly out of sight. On the way home, it might snow lightly as I plan a simple and yet delicious meal for my enthusiastically vegetarian family who never stare at my food and say 'where's the meat?'.

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Mrsfussypants1 · 30/11/2019 21:15

I love this, it's cracked me up. Your fantasy Christmas sounds fabulous. Having had our very energetic 3yr old granddaughter since finishing nursery yesterday I'm pooped. We've been decorating ginger bread men, taken a trip to see Santa, soft play, had a long walk around our estate to view Christmas decs, had umpteen meltdowns, sang when Santa got stuck up the chimney god knows how many times. Right now my fantasy Christmas would be like the episode of Mr Bean, where he goes and buys his own gifts and teddy a new eye. I'd buy some new Christmas pjs and slippers, have bacon sandwiches for breakfast, unwrap some new wireless headphones and a kitten! Eat an M&S Christmas lunch for one. Relax on the sofa with the kitten curled on my lap and watch its a wonderful life with the same 1980s Christmas tree from my childhood twinkling away while snow starts falling outside..... I wouldn't change my busy, chaotic fun filled family Christmas day for the world, but that Mr Bean episode calls to me.

numberonecook · 30/11/2019 22:39

At the moment i have a DH and 3 kids that arent even interested in christmas. sat in my small house that is bloody cold and Ive done all the shopping myself so far. MIL is moaning because we are not going to hers this year as we are seeing my family and the cats got the shits. My fantasy Christmas would be

Im laying out a huge turkey on my big table in a new 5 bed detached house whilst DH is dragging a fresh snow covered tree into the lounge. The children are all playing a board game nicely on the floor and the cat is napping by the fire. Christmas songs play softy in the background. Both sides of our family will be here soon to unwrap presents and have lunch together. DH will have bought me matching diamond necklace and earrings and a ticket for a fortnight in st lucia. The kids will not moan about what gifts they have and will be grateful. we will all sit by the window and watch the snow gently fall, then the kids will go play out whilst the grown ups laugh and watch. Then when all guests have gone home I will have a nice relaxing bath and snuggle down to watch a movie with the family.

Stompythedinosaur · 01/12/2019 02:34

My fantasy Christmas wouldn't be too different to my real Christmas except the stove would magically light itself without me having to trek out for coal, and the house would stay clean after I clean it.

Also the dc would go to bed nicely on xmas eve.

ParkheadParadise · 01/12/2019 02:49

This thread has really made me laugh @ 2.50am when I should be sleeping.

IdblowJonSnow · 01/12/2019 03:30

My children would go to sleep well before midnight (so I can put presents out and go to bed early). They then wouldn't wake before 9am.
Santa really would exist.
Family would be enthusiastic about going on a beautiful snowy walk. Everyone would eat the same xmas lunch instead of the 3 different meals poor dh prepares.
Apart from that our xmases are usually pretty good!

nannytothequeen · 01/12/2019 04:00

I would time travel and have a 1970s Christmas. Mum snd Dad would be there getting sozzled in paper hats and my aunt and uncle would come for dinner bringing my grandparents. There would be loads of booze and food and tinsel around the tv. What I'd give for one more day ...

MrOnionsBumperRoller · 01/12/2019 07:45

I was with you OP until Landrover Evoke. That somewhat spoiled the fantasy.

squirmyworm3 · 01/12/2019 13:19

I was with you OP until Landrover Evoke. That somewhat spoiled the fantasy

ah yes, sorry about that I think I got a bit carried away. Can I change my mind and have a nice clean little Defender?

I love the time travel idea. I'd go back to see my gran getting slowly sozzled and having to be escorted upstairs by my little sister who was wearing roller skates....

Loving all the napping cats

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LoonyLunaLoo · 01/12/2019 13:29

I’d just settle for a DH who is not Scrooge, who doesn’t moan or roll his eyes every time I mention Christmas or presents. Oh and definitely snow.

MrsElf · 01/12/2019 20:05

Love the sound of your perfect a Christmas squirmyworm3. I am also in muddy boot strewn chaos, but my fantasy Christmas should be attainable this year - I just need the weather to co operate.
I’m hoping to spend Christmas Eve baking with my mum, then taking our small nieces to some sort of festive entertainment- hopefully they’re big enough to ice skate while I flail around happily. We’ll get the veg done whilst listening to carols, then I’ll take mum and dogs to the park, detouring past all the decorated houses on our estate.
Midnight service and walk home as it snows.
Sleep (might need a few extra hours inserted here for the ideal Christmas).
Let the dogs out at dawn, feed them, have tea and cuddles. Open their stockings, and dress us in matching jumpers.
The snow will have melted, so I can drive the twisty lanes to have a dog walk on the beach - it won’t rain, and they’ll be beautifully behaved.
Open stockings with my mum, then settle down to watch Charlie Brown’s Christmas with toasted and buttered stollen, tea on one hand, champagne on the other.
DH and Dad wake up - more tea, and they can have stockings and be grateful, or not have stockings and not feel hard done by. I don’t care which, but they must choose one or the other.
Family and friends can call in for a drink and mince pie, and open a few presents.
Big family Christmas dinner. DH does most of the clearing up without any prompting (may involve a bigger kitchen for my parents, and certainly a big new fridge) and nap, while the small children play/watch Christmas cartoons quietly. The puppy will definitely nap on my lap, and not run around manically destroying things.
Collect a plate of snacks, more champagne, and open family presents together as it snows outside. I can play with my nieces and their new craft sets.
Games, Christmas film, take dogs to the park to play in the snow.
Eat bubble and squeak, have more drinks, sit around chatting, and off to bed.
Fingers crossed!

squirmyworm3 · 05/12/2019 19:13

sounds gorgeous!

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