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Advent calendar for elderly man?

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PersisFord · 15/11/2019 21:31

I am after some christmas expertise.....

An elderly relative has just gone in to a residential home after the death of his wife. He is very sweet and clever, we all adore him. But....his vision is terrible and he is feeling very lonely and isolated. The home is apparently nice enough but he doesn’t feel he has much in common with the other residents (he is very sociable and they are less so), and he is missing his house and his garden. He is coming to us for Christmas but we won’t get to him before as it’s the other end of the country. He doesn’t have any other family.

So that’s the back story. My kids write to him every week and we send him pictures etc. They suggested an advent calendar, which is an excellent idea....but where can I find an advent calendar for an adult man? His vision is too bad for a picture one. I found a tea one and a beer one but neither seems right. He’s got a real sweet tooth and I think he would like a chocolate one....but they all seem too childish.

I’d be really grateful for any thoughts.

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GeordieTerf · 16/11/2019 01:03

There are some nice tea ones this year. I got one in Boots.

You and your family sound lovely btw Smile

PersisFord · 24/11/2019 14:42

Just to say thank you - we bought a jojo one, put nice big numbers on the drawers and jammed it full of quality street, chocolate coins, drawings and teabags 😂 it’s in the post so hopefully he will enjoy it! Thanks for the suggestions and also thanks for all of the compliments on my family - we are obviously lovely 😂 but also I absolutely adore this man and he made every birthday and Christmas magical, visited me at university when I was homesick, was (and is!) a source of unconditional love and admiration even when I was a shitty teenager at odds with my parents and I am constantly sad that I can’t do more for him.

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