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Feeling very festive this year - anyone else?

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PerverseConverse · 25/11/2018 22:47

Every year I fail to feel very Christmassy and I've been like this since I hit my teenage years. This year however I feel really festive and am really excited about the season.

My children are with me for all of Christmas Eve and half of Christmas Day this year, my mum is spending Christmas with us, my divorce has just come through after years of waiting and wrangling, I've got lots of shopping done, am truly single with no bf this year so no one to suck the Christmas spirit out of me and whittle away my cash or eat our food whilst keeping me awake all night snoring so I've got more money to go around for the children and my mum. And something for me tooSmile

I still believe in Father Christmas a little, I've got lots of craft projects planned, baking cookies, homemade festive foods etc, I've got knock off Baileys in the fridge, two tubs of chocolates, M&S chocolate biscuits, other goodies and lots of wrapping paper left over from last year.

I've got lots of craft supplies for making my own cards to send to the children and mum and have got a big garland to make for the staircase.

I'm really feeling it this year and it's such a nice change! I can't wait to get the decorations up on the 1st and then get the tree a couple of weeks later.

My ds is 3 this year so will really get the whole concept this time and be very excited. Last year was a bit meh as his sisters weren't here on Christmas morning and he just wasn't very excited til they came home and then all hell broke loose!

I think this one is going to be truly magical and I hope it is for everyone else too Star

(Just realised for the first time in my life I won't have a Scrooge in my life. My dad, God rest his soul, was a bit of a misery about Christmas and we had family issues that I won't go into; and all my exes were shit about Christmas too. So, no more men, no more Scrooges, just my little family and lots of love and laughter and traditions and memories. 🎄

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everythingisginandroses · 26/11/2018 01:17

I hope you have a truly wonderful and magical Christmas. I adore Christmas too and I also make much more of it than my family did bringing me up. My job is distinctly unfestive, so I love taking as much time off as I can and enjoying my own little family holiday!

Today we got the wrapping paper down from the loft and I had the joy of discovering several gorgeous rolls which I had forgotten buying in the January sales, plus a dozen leftover Christmas stamps Smile

3 is perhaps the most magical age for Christmas - the wonder and joy on my DS's face when he came down in the gloomy morning and saw the lit-up tree in our living room, at ages 3/4/5 will stay with me forever. Happy for you! Star [santa]

VanellopeVonSchweetz99 · 26/11/2018 01:18

What a lovely post!
I feel extra festive too. We've had a rough couple of years with bereavments and ill health which has really put things into perspective and right now I'm in a good place, DH is too, and the DC are delightful (I'm biased but yes). I'm just really grateful right now and I want to celebrate that. And fingers crossed our new kitchen will be finished!
Hope you have a really lovely time OP.

PerverseConverse · 26/11/2018 06:27

Aww glad it's not just me! I'm not a fan of Christmas Day itself once their presents are opened but loved all the build up and preparation.

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Oogle · 26/11/2018 06:38

I am too. I’m desperate to get the decs up but won’t put them up until the 8th.
I shouldn’t be feeling festive - it’ll be my beloved MILs last Christmas and my wonderful grandparents are no longer with us.
Maybe that’s why I am? The reminder that life is too short. My usual grinch of a husband actually bought some Christmas Decs yesterday. I think he wants a magical Christmas too.

I hope you have a wonderful Christmas, OP.

Chottie · 26/11/2018 06:46

Merry Christmas from another Christmas lover Xmas Smile

I love everything about Christmas - just spending time with everyone you love and being surrounded by that lovely warm glow is priceless. Wishing you a wonderful Christmas

PerverseConverse · 26/11/2018 06:48

I'm sorry to hear that Oogle. My dad died a few years ago, just before the festive season so it's extra sad now. My mum is going on 80 so I'm conscious that there might not be many more Christmases with her, no grandparents, Im NC with the rest of my siblings and most of my extended family after realising how toxic they are, my ds has only seen his dad once as he doesn't want to be involved in his life, and my DDs have to go to their dad's every other Christmas Eve and Christmas morning so it can be a very emotional time of year. I hope you have a wonderful time too Thanks

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Didiusfalco · 26/11/2018 06:51

i still believe in Father Christmas a little Thank you, op. I love that. It’s cheered me right up on a dark Monday morning.

Notso · 26/11/2018 07:10

I'm not feeling it at all this year. We have a lot on at the moment. Moving house in the new year so Christmas just feels like an unwelcome obstacle.
I think also because I'm not hosting for the first time in about 10 years I'm not doing all my usual prep that gets me in the mood.

speakout · 26/11/2018 07:19

I;m with you OP.

Last Chistmas was awful.

Boiler packed in a week before christmas, had to be replaced on another floor of the house, so walls ripped open, floors up. House was freezing cold for 2 weeks. Three of us had Australian flu, and DS was going through a bad bout of depression.

Horrible christmas,

THis year I am determined to make things better.

DD is back from Uni on the 10th so lots of time to prepare. DS is in a much better place, house is warm and hopefully we won't be ill.

hohosnow · 26/11/2018 07:21

What a lovely post. I hope you and your DC's have a great Christmas Smile

Notatallobvious · 26/11/2018 07:32

Nope. Not even thought about it yet!

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